Okay here's my situation-
I'm Virgin newbie that wants to finally get laid. I joined here, got vip, and joined p411 as well. I read the everything applicable in the newbie guide and did a couple searches around the site. I haven't found anything regarding what I want to ask though. I don't have my own car at the moment so I'll have to do Outcall to my place, I know that's frowned upon but I have no other options other than wait.
So my question, what is the general rule for time providers spend traveling to your place? Does it matter?
I mean I don't wanna find the perfect chick halfway across the state (or next to it) and try to get her to come all the way to my place. Do you guys go by area code or do you just negotiate with the provider?
I would also like to here opinions on the Outcall thing. It would be the first time I meet the girl so I know it's risky.
-- Modified on 3/4/2013 7:12:13 PM
and take a cab there? I did that a while back when I could not drive, and just NEEDED some pussy..
I really wouldn't advice any hobbyist, let alone a first timer like you, to host a provider you have never met before at your home..
-- Modified on 3/4/2013 7:40:04 PM
I can try, but I'm not living by myself so I would have to come up with an excuse. I could wait for my car but I wanna get laid already.
And never invite a provider over when there is someone else is in the house..
Dude...C'mon tell me this is a serious post....
-- Modified on 3/4/2013 8:05:07 PM
No s*** I don't have much choice, If I had girlfriend people would still live here, Do I not invite her over? I'm supposed to just sit here then?
If you mean don't invite one while people are actually in the house again no s***.
-- Modified on 3/4/2013 8:18:17 PM
-- Modified on 3/4/2013 8:28:52 PM
-- Modified on 3/4/2013 8:32:11 PM
is not same as having a GF over..
Are you in your 20s...?
Or pick a gal who has an INCALL! You'll need to reach the location in advance but don't hang around the lobby... kill time at a coffee shop near by so you arrive right on time.
so check out their site and it is also OK to ask.
But I just want to also join the others and have you reconsider having a gal you've never met before come to your place.
See if you can rent a car or find a way to get to a hotel by public transportation.
Not old enough to rent yet, But I'll figure something out.
Not old enough to rent a car? I think we've found the real source of the problem.
I advise you not to invite a stranger into your residence under these circumstances (that may be very unfamiliar to you). "Home Alone" was a MOVIE and your outcome might be a lot worse.
I would also advise you to wait and scratch the itch yourself. You'll have plenty of time for shared activities in the not too distant future.
They offer hourly car rentals and I don't think you have to be 25 to rent from them, just have a good driving record.
Or, you should probably just wait to get your own. If you're under 25, you can wait just a little while longer. I know it's tough, but if you've waited this long, what's another few months?
Geez Margo, you really don't know much about guys after all, do you?
Unless you live 50 miles away from civilization,I don't see an issue.Now Providers generally add like $50 to there normal fee, but I love outcalls!
1st -your in your environment, that alone should relax you more.2nd - you get to set the "stage"ie.. candles, lotions,clean sheets,soft jazz.I prefer to have bottled water, unopened wine and fruit available(whip cream a must).
Now I like the "liberator wedge"(can be found online & local sex shops) as my taste are more geared to first getting the lady excited, but certainly everyone has different preferences as to toys also.
First locate 5 to 6 ladies that fit your taste.Look at reviews ,talk to a few guys that have reviewed her(pm),so you have an idea of her likes/dislikes.If she has a web page READ IT CAREFULLY before contacting her.
When she enters your home , give her a quick tour .Depending on the feed back from the guys, I prefer time spent on the coach as a warm up .
Be sure to lay out fresh wash cloth & towel ,hand wipes are proffered by some ladies.It goes without saying but your home should smell & be clean.
Animals should be restrained unless very small and docile.
Yeah just disregard everything I said please.
None of any of my previous thread will apply to your circumstances.
Your 1st worry is finding a provider that not only see's newbies but will deal with a guy (I'm hoping here... in there early 20's?)
I wish you luck .
hahahaha no. yeah I'm 20
ROFLMAO 20? TO funny, Lumii thanks for the laughs!If your ever in ATL pm me , I got like 30 close provider friends that will rock your world!Some of them travel too, so pm me your location and I'll see what I can do for you.
I hope they like to travel up north then. We'll see.
ask her to rent the room & you reimburse her with cash. I've only had to do this once & we met at the coffee shop in the next building so she was sure before she paid for the room. If she asks for money for the room... you are taking a chance that she'll run with the money so only give her the room money to limit your risk. It's much less a risk if you pick a well reviewed provider.
I'd say a lot of guys perfer SHE rent the room so there's no paper trail back to them. If you rent the room in your name, you'll have to show a Credit Card as guarentee even if you pay cash. NEVER leave her in a room rented in your name. She immediately offers incall from the room you rented... if there's any damage, items used from the mini bar or she's busted... it comes back on you!
Hope this helps more!
HV
It seems the bulk of the responses are in favor of getting a hotel or going out. Got it, There's not much options so I'll just wait it out, thanks for the replies.
"...but I'm not living by myself so I would have to come up with an excuse"
An excuse to go out? Why? Are you living with a girlfriend? because you say:
"If I had girlfriend people would still live here" which doesn't make any sense to me, but it does say "IF" so I'm guessing you DON'T have a girlfriend (?) so who is it you have to make an excuse to go out?
"hahahaha no. yeah I'm 20". Really? No judgement, I've just never heard of that these days. Do you really want your first experience to be with a professional?
P411 or not, there are a lot of providers who will not see a 20 year old. And I'm guessing a lot more providers who will not travel to go to a 20 year old's home. I'm thinking that the girl that you might find to take this job is going to be less-than-reputable, less-than-professional - a girl that you would not want to invite into your home.
Well, if you are real, good luck.
...want to be caught like George was on Seinfeld. After all, he would have to use his parents' bed; he couldn't fuck a provider in his race car bed.
despite some of the attempts at humor, you do have a tough situation to deal with. Like others, I assume you are still living with parents, not just roommates, otherwise, unless they are real prudish about sex, having a provider come to you should not be that much a problem. A big HOWEVER, this has been addressed numerous times, and the overwhelming consensus is that it's never a good idea to have a provider come to your home unless you have seen her before, preferably more than once. Too much could come back to bite you in the ass eventually.
If the hotel thing won't work for you, wait until you have your own transportation and do an incall. Or maybe you could borrow a car from one of your closest friends? We're all here for the same reason, but sometimes you have to take the long way around.
Swim
Crawl before you walk, Daniel Son.
Your best option is to take the money you would spend on the proivder and put it towards a car. Then all these issues would go away. Seems to make the most sense to me. In the mean time I would suggest doing the old five knuckle shuffle on the piss pump.