Good evening Gentlemen!

I am starting to get into the hobby. I have been researching and getting an understanding for the past few months and i am now ready to make the plunge. However, before i do this, i would like to ask a few questions.

1. I see everywhere no explicit talk. However, reading the reviews, i see that in some reviews, they start to talk about what they want or what are the rules. When is it acceptable to start to talk about what you want?

2. if was to meet a lady for dinner then go back to for private time, do you guys usually meet at the restaurant? Or do you usually meet at the ending destination and go together?

3. If we meet at the restaurant, should i put the donation on the table before she gets there? Or should this not be done till we get to the room?

4. The provider i am looking to see is Sharin at the TER review below. She has plent of reviews, however, no recent reviews since June of 2016. Should this be a red flag?

https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=148840  

5. Her page states dinner and drink dates. Initial contact, i referenced drinks for our date.    Her response was i don't drink. Should this be a red flag? I am guessing not.

6. Is there thing i should be aware of traveling companions?  

Any assistance is greatly appreciated!

Thank you!

-- Modified on 5/5/2017 1:17:12 AM

1) No explicit talk is to protect her from discussing sex acts for money in case you are LE.  You can figure out what she does, and does not, do from her reviews and her web site.  When you write a few reviews yourself you'll have the credibility to PM other reviewers for their candid experience. Other than that you'll need to wait until you see her.
2) I usually go to dinner afterwards.  It's better not to fuck on a full stomach and with a clean mouth.
3) You can ask her directly about this when the date is confirmed or wait until you're at the table with her.
4) Don't worry about it.  Maybe she's low volume or simply hasn't seen any guys who review.  Most don't.
5) Not a red flag.  She's just telling the truth.
6) I don't understand your question.  Please clarify.

1. The general rule is to never talk about sexual acts in emails or texts, this may be ok once you’ve had a session with a lady and she knows you’re ok, it’s always best to ask her what she is comfortable with. Once your both naked and in bed you should be ok to ask what she likes, what are her favorite positions, when she starts giving you a BJ you can tell her how you like it.. etc..
2. You will usually meet at the restaurant, but again ask what she prefers to do, she may be fine with you picking her up at the hotel.
3. NO, NO never pull out the envelope in public, either hide it in a magazine or just wait until you get back to hotel.
4. I wouldn’t worry about it, she is P411 verified and also has 10 pages of reviews
5. You should ask her to clarify what she means by that.
6. Doesn’t matter if there a touring lady or not, the same rules apply, only see well reviewed ladies and if they have P411 that’s even better.

Also, don't forget to read the Self Help Center at the top of the Newbie page or search the forum for answers.