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Is there a minimum expectation for GFE that all providers use?

Example, DFK?Hanging around the entire hour if session done in 45 minutes type thing?

Is this something (ok) to discuss on phone or best in person?

it's hard to say, but I will give you my expectations.  Lots of DFK, BBBJ, DATY, snuggling/cuddling between possible pops (many guys, like me, have hard time getting more than one in an hour), and being involved the whole hour if that's what I booked.  Why would you want to leave after 45 minutes if you paid for an hour?

Discuss?  If you have done your research, read the reviews, there really should be nothing to discuss.  Besides, no one in their right mind discusses these activities over the phone, unless you want to get hung up on.  If it doesn't happen when you are with her to your satisfaction, don't go back.

Swim

Swim, oh  heck no, would never "discuss" anything over the phone.  Stuff like that "admin stuff" (lightly touched on), I personally think is o.k.

Yeah, FBI admits to scouring EVERYTHING-and I mean EVERYTHING
if you're not an I.T. guy,   "Carnivore (disambiguation)." on Wkipedia.) --FBI scours everything.

ECHELON/NSA --Brits came out admitted the existence--got USA all twisted up. (wiki it)--intercepts everything. Phone (can prove it's you)--Email, "Hey, I never wrote that, prove it"

So funny, I remember when S-R was up, I asked some newbie "Cuddle"/"kiss" questions and was FLAMED bad. Guess the business really has changed, thus why I'm back in newbie territory.
Young 20's back then. Funny, what I wanted, never could find. (GFE). I just gotta kiss to get revved up. Or really tipsy

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Posted By: swimtrekr
...being involved the whole hour if that's what I booked.  Why would you want to leave after 45 minutes if you paid for an hour?  Swim

 Think about the signal you're sending when you watch the clock during a session.  "I'm a lonely man and you need to stay with me for the entire 60 minutes."  That's not the signal you want to send out there.

Example : Last week I booked with a provider I'd never seen before, excellent session, sweet girl. But she left about 15 minutes early.  After hot sex, why would I care?    I thanked her for seeing me & for taking a chance on a new client. I had no idea what time it was till after she left.  I got a text from her today in that curious provider shorthand:   "Do u want 2 c me agin?"  

Dudes, stop watching that fucking clock & you won't have to worry about booking providers.  They'll contact you.  They'll eventually drop the clock-watchers & start spending extra time with you.  --z

and realizing it's time for me to leave, esp if she doesn't give me any hints.  When I'm having fun with a provider, the last thing I'm worrying about is the clock.  Many, if not most, providers have a clock where they can see it, or a music set that lasts about an hour, so when the music ends, she knows it's time to end things.  But, if she hustles me out and I see I have only been there, say, 45 minutes and I paid for an hour, I will not be happy.  I don't do outcall, so her leaving early is not an issue with me, since I'm the one who leaves.

Swim

It's a vague feeling of have been with a GF while you are with her.  Each of us has our own definations...   I have mine, you'll have yours...
Mine requires kissing, not necessarily with a tongue down my or her throat...  for instance...   Some cuddling...  not leaping off the bed...  or if the bathroom is needed, returning to hold & cuddle.    

Getting the full time is basic to a FS provider...  a rush job, is a cheat & scam...

No, there is no definition that all providers use. The term "GFE" means absolutely nothing
because no two people agree on what it means.

And guys, why answer a newbie question with your own personal definition of GFE?
You are part of the problem, not part of the solution.

Posted By: FrenchJimmy
Is there a minimum expectation for GFE that all providers use?

Example, DFK?Hanging around the entire hour if session done in 45 minutes type thing?

Is this something (ok) to discuss on phone or best in person?

crazyshit318 reads

Instead of trying to define GFE as a list of acronyms that you can check off, just read a girl's reviews and get an idea of what she offers.

I just ran across what was a new term for me SAFEGFE it means most the conventional GFE but done with no body fluids exchanged -- sometimes it means passed--I wonder why they use GFE

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