I am an outgoing, well-mannered, college student, looking for a gratifying encounter.  I wanted to have an FULL service experience....and not some warped interpretation of the term.  I have only acquired the services of an escort once in my life.  Unfortunately, I was COMPLETELY ripped off.  

I was told when I called that the service was all inclusive and that I would be totally satisfied.  But when the young lady showed up, she didn't so much as give me a kiss on the cheek let alone fulfill any of my desires.  (Only touching I got from her was a hand shake).  See I respect the business...but I want to be treated farely.

I just don't have that type of money to blow like that.  So please let me know the rules to the game.  What did I do wrong and how can I assure that if I try again I wont be "robbed" again

Check the reviews here.  Don't use someone that is not well reviewed by respected people.

It should help a great deal.

You took one for the team.  It happens to the best of us starting out.

Reading the reviews of ladies goes a long way to making sure you
will get what you are looking for.

And make sure that you review the provider that ripped you off. Give a complete description of the encounter , not just "Ripoff"...

An important point here! Buy the VIP membership! Only then do you get to see the details that allow you to avoid being ripped off!

I had my first encounter based upon a selection made without being a VIP member. I expected a GFE experience and got anything but! Since then, armed with all the detail, I'm having a great time!

Good Luck!

any  $$$$'s of any kind ... you find out what you are exactly getting for your hard earned cash .... If she doesn't like it, if she questions the reason for your actions (tell her you've been ripped off in the past), if she hesitates, makes the hairs on the back of your neck stand up, if it doesn't feel right for any reason ... show her the door .... there is no reason for this to happen when you have TER and so many incredible indies to choose from ...hobby safe hobby well hobby all you can be

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I will surely take all the the great advice into account next time...Thanks a bunch...

Reviews are very important!!
Always write an review whether if its good experience or bad. This way everyone in this hobby will be happy

It happens to everybody, including old salts who take a chance on unreviewed providers.  

That's the great thing about TER, is that we can afford to take the risk once in a while if we know what it is - ie, you take a chance on an unreviewed provider, it's like insurance, spreading the risk.   And so by spreading the word, we minimize the risk over the long term.

Now, there are some situations that suggest ripoffs more quickly to me - agencies, especially ones that are slick or sleazy (that's most of them, isn't it?).   Girls who show up with drivers  are more likely to be ripoffs - they need the firepower.

One of the most common ripoffs is the girl who wants another $200 for the next act.  CUT YOUR LOSSES the 1st time she asks, and make sure we know her name.