Newbie - FAQ

Whats an upsell??
sambrown64 2 Reviews 1959 reads
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OK. I always wanted to see a provider and have one big issue. When someone says in their ad that sex and bj are all part of $200 or $300 (whetever it is), where is the upsell? Do I show up and $200 is for massage and extra for sex? Id like to know that whatever they say in the ads are true. Is it? Please respond. Thanks!!

-- Modified on 11/6/2010 7:38:39 AM

Whats is upsell?

Upsell is where a lady charges extra for certain serves. Often this is use as a semi-con, they show up get you going then when you are most most easily manipulated inform you that to take care of that it will be $$$ more. Good honest ladies do not upsell. The only way to avoid the upsell game is to read the reviews including the juicy detains as the upsell if any is often talked about or to back-channel the lady. If a lady tries to upsell walk, as it is bad business practice on her part and we should not reward unethical business practices. The exceptions is MP because the ladies often work for tips, and anal/fetishes as they take special preparation.

Links to other terms you may need:

Definitions, Acronyms, Abbreviations, and Terms (A-M)
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=75535&boardID=33&page=

Definitions, Acronyms, Abbreviations, and Terms (N-Z)
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=75533&boardID=33&page=

Urban Dictionary a great source to look up anything not covered in the links above.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/

All newbies should study:

A gal who puts down specifics in her ads could be trouble.

A general rule to follow is:  If it seems too good to be true, it probably isn't.

graydon918 reads

such as anal sex or certain fetishes that may take extra preparation, and we do not consider that "upsell".  Typically these providers will make it known that there may be an extra charge involved, either in their ad, website, or board comments.  What you need to avoid is getting in a room with a girl for $$, and then having her demand extra to kiss, take off her panties, touch your member, and the list goes on.
As others have mentioned, a small investment in VIP membership and you can easily avoid "upsell" providers.  If you cannot afford VIP, you cannot afford to hobby with all the good providers out there.

graydon724 reads

a thread just started on the Boston board by a provider who found out someone else was using her pictures in BP ads.  Since I do not think it is legal to post links to specific reviews on the newbie board, I am posting a link to the thread.  Check out the review linked in the post by Dr_I_Ball.  It describes an upsell appointment perfectly, only usually a reviewer may not give so much detail in the general comments, but might save it for the juicy details. (This reviewer said there were no juicy details, lol.)

Also, an observant hobbyist would note in the provider profile that the pictures are accurate, but not a real photo of the provider.  This, in and of itself, is a red flag, but not always a disqualifying event, because several highly rated providers who are exceptionally guarded about privacy may find pictures that look "almost" like her to use in advertisements.  I have visited a provider twice, had 9/9 experiences, and never  once noticed the pics were not real until she asked me if I thought they were close enough to continue using.

known in advance.  Upsell is when you get surprised with "I charge extra for BBBJ or MSOG".  These services should be standard for ladies who claim to be GFE.

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