
I have a review from a client I saw and we didn't see eye to eye I remember him very well.. Even my contact info is off How can I update my information I sent in a few reports but no reply !
but I don't know if you want that.
To get a specific review pulled down, you have to have a very good reason with proof; and that is pretty rare. If you press the issue, TER will most likely just remove all your reviews and delist you.
If there is a problem with contact information in your profile however, you can always file a problem report (See the link on your profile.) and ask TER to correct that.
I'm going to say this nicely. I looked at your reviews... I probably would not see you based on your reviews. There are 2 low reviews, not just one, which is a red flag for me. There are other less than stellar reviews. Getting one review taken down will not "solve" your "problem".
I don't like ladies with large swings in the reviews. I admit, ladies have got to be good actresses as not every guy will appeal to you. Maybe this business is not for you. No shame in that, it's not for everyone.
If you want to stay at this, You really need to read back on this board & find out what guys want.
I'll start:
We want to not be rushed, we want the full time, uninterrupted. Put your cell away.
Figure out a way to manage time (discreet clocks, music tracks, or a good sense of time) without stressing. NEVER ask a guy if he's done yet or about ready. If you really want guys to come back, have enough time to finish what you start... make sure a guy finishes (at least once) no matter what. For instance, after 1/2 hour or play, my Favs feel free to increase the friction... say add a hand to a BJ.
We don't want to bump into other clients in the hall or parking
We want to have a reasonably clean environment
We want a reasonable bed, a chair for our clothes, a bathroom available
Allow yourself enough time to clean up & rest in between.
You menu is your menu... guys will decide if they are willing to pay your scale for what you offer. I've not seen you so I'll not comment on that.
BE an honest provider... no scams, no rush.
You have very mixed reviews... but that's not the end of the world. Improve your method of operation, better reviews will follow & push the mixed reviews onto the second page. I don't hold a few low reviews against a provider... but consistantly "good" reviews for a page is a big help. IMHO, Not all "good" reviews are 9-10s but 7 and up. I often see ladies with 7-8 or 8-9, since reviews are subjective.
I hope you take this as the constructive criticism it was intended as.
skb
No thanks a lot Its advice to me....LOL (always room for improvement in every provider) and I know have improve so much in so many ways as a provider when when i frist got here I was on the floor an empty apt for a month..i moved 3 times now im in my own home that i,m buying with much thanks to the ones who didn't read my reviews ,that I see on a regular basis and i have a good return with a few of my boys that i really enjoy and don't Act I truly enjoy & good at what I do I dont fake Why Should.. I know I was A mess 3yrs and that what Im trying to clean up ( yes I change my whole entire operation ) I lost 15 lbs I post my age 40 now I use to adv a few years younger) .. I know that got me 1 review was 60 quickies and I know that was my fault,i should have not been offering that ( I had to do what I had to do working towards my 1 st home ) . I saw some jerks that tried to take advantage of that no i,m not making up an excuse you win some you lose & no I,m not a clock watcher ( I prefer mature men) at all but, some clients try to take advantage of some providers and another bad review 1 was working with a provide and those the only 2 reviews i want removed or allow me room to explain and you be the judge ..LOL I,m working on getting more up I,m honest very fair i been working for over 10yr and that every provider in the buss. had a few rotten apples and there just didn't make to this site i,m sure, I talk to lots of women on ter and some say the same ...Again I really do appreciated your input And yes I did put my phone up ...lol,THANKS A LOT Anita
I don't like ladies with large swings in the reviews. I admit, ladies have got to be good actresses as not every guy will appeal to you. Maybe this business is not for you. No shame in that, it's not for everyone.
If you want to stay at this, You really need to read back on this board & find out what guys want.
I'll start:
We want to not be rushed, we want the full time, uninterrupted. Put your cell away.
Figure out a way to manage time (discreet clocks, music tracks, or a good sense of time) without stressing. NEVER ask a guy if he's done yet or about ready. If you really want guys to come back, have enough time to finish what you start... make sure a guy finishes (at least once) no matter what. For instance, after 1/2 hour or play, my Favs feel free to increase the friction... say add a hand to a BJ.
We don't want to bump into other clients in the hall or parking
We want to have a reasonably clean environment
We want a reasonable bed, a chair for our clothes, a bathroom available
Allow yourself enough time to clean up & rest in between.
You menu is your menu... guys will decide if they are willing to pay your scale for what you offer. I've not seen you so I'll not comment on that.
BE an honest provider... no scams, no rush.
You have very mixed reviews... but that's not the end of the world. Improve your method of operation, better reviews will follow & push the mixed reviews onto the second page. I don't hold a few low reviews against a provider... but consistantly "good" reviews for a page is a big help. IMHO, Not all "good" reviews are 9-10s but 7 and up. I often see ladies with 7-8 or 8-9, since reviews are subjective.
I hope you take this as the constructive criticism it was intended as.
skb
From your post it seems like you were providing as a means to an end. I used to be the same way, sort of. I started providing to pay for plastic surgery, and then I was going to exit the biz. After I got an amazing rack, and got in better shape I found that I really liked the hobby world and wanted to stay around. If you look at my reviews you can see the time frame where my mindset changed from a means to an end to this is the career I love. The change in mindset increased my appearence points by 2-3 points and performance by as much as 4 points. Add a little "Care" into your craft and watch the results in your review scores match your new found attitude.
Your profile contact info matches your ad contact info. If it has changed, do what skb said and file a problem report using the tab at the top of your profile. If this is really about getting rid of one or more bad reviews, what does that solve? Skb told you from looking at your reviews dxactly what to do. Fix the negatives and build your reputation that way. You undoubtably have skills as even some of your lower scored reviews mention positives in reference to your performance. Get a resonably clean and organized incall location, learn to schedule, learn how to be discrete, let the "customer" dictate how he wants to get off as long as its on to your menu and a reasonable request and bring yo ur A game to each session. If you do these things, which are not difficult to achieve or understand their importance, your reviews will greatly improve and be consistent. Before you know it you can raise your rates too. As of now you should be happy you have a few extremely tolerant reviewers that probably judged you by performance only and not including atmosphere and professionalism. Good luck and if this is really only about contact info you should still consider the valuable advice you have been offered.
If you met with a client, even if it was an unhappy pairing... the review will probably be considered as valid. If you had not met the client, then the review could be removed if you could demonstrate that it was fake. If there are falsehoods in the review, like claimed activity that didn't happen... and you can convince the administration... then reviews have been removed.
I answered as I did previously because I didn't see any contradictions between reviews.
skb
Why of course, I truly understand I guess you are suppose to go by what you read...? They are telling there side Of they felt they exp...who to say they my do me some good in the world of BDSM..LOL Again Thanks.. P.S (I am working on getting better reviews) they can stay up
If you want to improve & be a good provider... that's a start. Don't sweat the few low reviews. To get your act together... you need a good location, clean, decent furnature. A hotel is better than a crappy room even if it costs more. The location needs to be safe for you & safe for your clients and discreet... discreet parking.
You need to keep a proper schedule of appointments.
You should have a separate free email, business phone for security reasons.
I'd suggest a web site... even a cheap template site. You don't necessarily need every function but you can work up a site that provides necessary information which you tweek & control. Use spell check & good gramar! Put the TER provider banner on it (required) so you can link to it.
You can advertize on your local board once every 7 days.
Now, you know you have some low reviews. You can't/shouldn't deny it. If someone questions, you should be prepared to email & reassure that you did have some rushed meetings. But no more... you have changed the location, provide unrushed GFE service.
If you truely have, your reviews will quickly show it.
Best Wishes,
skb