ok, i had my first escort experience a few weeks ago,this was from a ad so i did not know about reviews. this woman was very nice but suprised me in one thing that she did that was unsafe for her. bbbj. a condom was used for sex, anyway she after i found this site she advertises bbbjtc which is not safe. I have been sick since being with her.I have asked her to test but she will not.i cannot beleive that providers allow bbbj, in my case i didnot ask for that. she just did it. so I have been sick I only pray i am ok for a first timmer.Just want some input as a newbie

If you were are this concerned about it, why didn't you insist on a cover before playing?  Many providers offer this service.  Although the danger of an STD does exist, the actual infection rates are dramatically lower than BBFS.  You say you "have been sick" but you don't specify how, so maybe you just have the flu?  Why blame this on the BBBJ you received?

It seems, reading this message, and looking at your concerns (which are valid, don't get me wrong), that perhaps you are a tad too high strung for this hobby!

ROFL!
Did your cock just kinda fall in her mouth?

Hate when that happens

people think the risk is low but its really not i saw on here someone said the risk of std is 4 in 10000 or some thing like that.stop and do the math if you get a bbbj your sleeping with everyone the providers been with plus other people the client has been with and so on and so on it just keeps going. so in the end the numbers come down to more like 1in 10  WRAP IT UP!

You obviously prefer that a provider give you head with a condom. If you have no physcal signs of illness (rash, trouble passing liquid, ect), then it is very likely that the problem is in your head. You can and should go to a clinic that can perform competent testing for STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) but will not make the information public, assuming you test positive for anything at all.
Once you have this behind you and are confident that you are ok, remember that YOU control how a lady give you a blowjob. Pay attention to what is going on, if a lady attempts to go down on you bareback (headjob without a condom), ask her to stop and get a condom.
I seems that you are fully aware now of how you can use reviews to sort out ladies that you are uncomfortable with. You should find many choices of ladies that will only give head with a condom or not at all. There are many that will not kiss on the mouth or allow touching below their waist. Find the ones that provide the services that you need but do not make you loose sleep at night.

nchs71,

Howdy, ummmm....how many times and places are you gonna go through this might I ask?

You asked repeatedly in chat, and now you're posting here? Oh and that you contacted "staff"...you're pretty much gonna get the same answers everywhere.

Your symtoms were if I remember correctly, a sore throat, swollen glands, and aches? that would be the flu, or a common cold, they happen, you don't have to get a BBBJ to get them.

You said you got tested and all the tests came back negative...you are fine, what exactly do you think the lady should be getting tested for?  a cold? perhaps she is a carrier of typhoid fever....do you have concerns about her having tuberculosis?  If your tests were negative you didn't get anything from her.

As for concerns about her safety, she most likely gets tested on a regular basis so paying for a battery of tests now because you have a common cold probably seems a bit of a waste to her.

Here's some input if you are that concerned, now that you have found TER, only book with ladies that do CBJ...and if you get tested and come back clean, don't repeatedly bother the lady about getting tested, believe it or not the ladies do care about their well being and do test for their own, and their clients safety.

If I had to guess I think you have made yourself sick from stress.  So one more bit of advice, if you are with a lady and she is doing something that you don't think safe...ask her to stop, demand that you have a cover.  

Another option would be that you take up a safer hobby like stamp collecting, though you could get a paper cut which could become infected...oh and you should probably wear gloves as other people have touched the stamps.

So before you knew it she had wrestled your unwilling cock into her mouth and then pulled out a gun, put it to your stomach and said you will accept this BBBJ or get shot and with much reluctance you accepted her BBBJ and cried while she sucked and slurped you to completion. You poor dear and screw that bitch who would do such a thing as make you receive a BBBJ. The whore!

I think jerking off is a better solution. Better jerking yourself off, than jerking the rest of us off. I don't mean to be unsympathetic, well maybe I do, but I think you should take your phobias somewhere else. Or as WT suggested, take up stamp collecting.

BTW staff was being polite, I would say post it somewhere else that doesn't allow sunshine. In short, get over yourself

You are doing your statistical analysis all wrong.  If the number is 4 in 10,000, that doesn't guarantee that 4 out of every 10,000 get something.  It means that you stand that chance, which is reset every time.

Using your logic, if I roll a single dice 6 times, I will get every number possible in those six rolls, since there is a 1 in 6 chance of getting each number each roll.

Reality is different.  Rethink your probability study.

I'm not discounting your need to "wrap it up" since that works for you!  Just don't use your false analysis to try and convince everybody else.

sorry i was conserned and needed some answers
being sick beginning the day after for the last 3 weeks was alarming.

Did you actually expect anyone to take this seriously?  At least once a month there is a post like this from some newbie who had their first escort experience and contracted a disease called "buyer's remorse".  Do you always jump into everything without thinking beyond the end of your penis?  You certainly seem familiar with BBBJ's, yet you are shocked that they are available.  You also seem powerless to stop a provider from giving one.  Spend your money on an English writing class and get a different hobby.

I can understand you being concerned about being sick for three weeks, anyone would be, but once STDs were ruled out from testing, and the people here reassured you it wasn't the BBBJ, you should perhaps have  stopped looking to the lady in question and instead gone to see another doctor about these symptoms.

As for getting sick the very next day, to my knowledge there is no STD that would produce symptoms that quickly. As a matter of fact, the common cold takes about three days from exposure to the onset of symptoms.  There are very few things you could catch that would make you feel sick in under 24 hours, fewer that would have the symptoms you indicate you have, fewer still that you would be inclined to contract in North America....chances are better than not, you already had what ever you have when you had your appointment, but were probably not contagious since you lacked any symptoms at that time.

You really should go and see a doctor, but not because you received a BBJ, but because you probably have an infection that requires treatment....and not one that would relate at all to BBJ.