Newbie - FAQ

When you first meet with a provider
Tholkn 5 Reviews 2318 reads
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is it better to discuss her do's and dont's? Or would it be better to ask during the session?  Things like "is it ok to stick a finger in your ass?" and other things like that?  I know most providers list things they do and don't do in their profile, but there are so many more little things they just can't list.

I would think it would be better to discuss it before the fun starts so you don't have to stop and ask a possible mood killing question.  And I know they're professionals and get asked just about everything I can think of on a regular basis, but my personality is more on the shy side and don't have a lot of experience with women and am worried about making things weird between us.  

And just so we're clear, I'm talking about when I get there, not messaging between us prior to arrival.

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Go with the flow and move slowly, if you are heading someplace she doesn't want you to she'll let you know.

that is the time to lay down your cards and discuss what can and can't take place.

If she has already covered any of this on her website, you should already know this.

Also it is good to have read her reviews to get some idea of what she has allowed and not allowed previously.

JackDunphy654 reads

and others with a tire iron to the head. Ease into those waters. Read her reviews thoroughly and if you don't see it listed, assume it's a no go, for now.

After round one or a girl you have seen before, you will most likely get the green light to at least  talk about those things you may want to add to the next session.

A newb guy asking those questions at the beginning of a first time session can be off putting to many girls.

Remember, everyone is LE phobic, to one extent or another. Let her relax with you, get to know you a bit, then many things on her not listed menu may come into play.

Absolutely well said... I'm extremely safe so I very much appreciate anyone who doesn't try to bombard me with questions, let body language do the work at first & something like a finger in the bum for me personally is never a deal breaker & actually it depends on my mood that day.  
~Mindy  

 
 

Posted By: JackDunphy
and others with a tire iron to the head. Ease into those waters. Read her reviews thoroughly and if you don't see it listed, assume it's a no go, for now.  
   
 After round one or a girl you have seen before, you will most likely get the green light to at least  talk about those things you may want to add to the next session.  
   
 A newb guy asking those questions at the beginning of a first time session can be off putting to many girls.  
   
 Remember, everyone is LE phobic, to one extent or another. Let her relax with you, get to know you a bit, then many things on her not listed menu may come into play.

Start with DATO. Not many will dismiss a good tongue lashing back there and work it from there.

who just sticks his tongue, uninvited, into my ass, well...

he will treated to the sight of me squirming away as fast as possible, and then.. french kisses? I don't think so.

There's a reason we all get hepatitis vaccines, and this is one of them.

There's a section on each provider's profile about rimming. Some girls are OK with it, but it's by no means a given

ask a generic question such as "are there any rules I need to be aware of"?

ROGM592 reads

Read her Ad and liked what I saw. Did my Research and read all of her Reviews. Reviews were Excellent. Called her to set up an appointment. Arrived on time at her Incall Location. We talked about what was available. She stated No Greek. No problem for me. When things got going, then I asked if I could do some things with her. Surprisingly she said Yes. Ever since that meeting one year ago, this Provider has always taken Great Care of me. So when I see her she knows Exactly what I want. Once you gain the Trust of a Provider you like, then getting what you want is not a problem.

You might be very careful about plunging your digit up an escorts ass without at the very least asking or VERY slowly working toward that area and if she PULLS AWAY, get that as a no thank you NOT as a keep poking till she punches me in the throat if she doesn't like it.  

If you try and shove your finger in her ass, you might be met with force, just sayin.

GaGambler485 reads

First off let me state for the record I do NOT like ass play when it's my ass in play, but I booked a session with this gorgeous Brazilian a few years ago, virtually every one of her reviews raved about her "prostrate massages" and how she gave them "unexpectedly" I felt obligated to let her know that "homey didn't play that" and that if I were to suddenly find a finger jammed up my ass that I would not be responsible for my actions. I think my exact words were "I won't be planning on punching you in the face, I really won't, but I can't make any promises for what I will do if this happens, proceed at your own risk" lol

So yes, I completely "get it" where it comes to what you are saying.

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