I'm new to the hobby world. It's apparent that many of the providers I'm attracted to are young and beautiful. I'm neither young nor beautiful.

It also sounds like many of the hobbyist's reviews are written by men older than their provider. Is this fairly typical of the hobbyist and provider arrangement?

I 50-years old, not as thin as I used to be around the waist, and a good deal thinner than I used to be on the head. I'm a big man, 6'4" and 230 lb. I'm well groomed, successful, and intelligent. I'm very active, still strong, and when I get the opportunity I have good stamina.

I miss the beauty and responsiveness of the women I knew in my younger days. I'm certainly attracted to a number of the 25-35 year old providers that are well reviewed here, but I wonder whether they'll be attracted to me.

Maybe there is no such thing as a typical hobbyist, and if there is, maybe I'm too far outside the norm. Anyway I thought I'd get some perspectives from the membership. Any responses from providers would be heartily welcomed.

seem to be in their 40s - 60s, with a smattering of older and younger guys thrown in

average age I'd bet is early to mid 50s

providers *generally* do not care about your age at all - and may prefer guys in their 50s -

providers generally do not care about your appearance per se - but they do want you to be

scrupulously clean
well groomed
nice, pleasant
discreet
respectful

and to be in possession of an envelope containing the proper donation

FWIW I will be 60 pretty soon, and providers in their 20s and 30s like me just fine.

Cheers

GTM

I'm with ya jb56. I have seen two providers so I'm a newbie myself.

To the point of whether they will  find you attractive...this is not your typical relationship. The rules of human decency still prevail (treat each other with respect and compassion). However, this  relationship is black and white without the gray. No head games, the provider is in it as a business you are a customer. Take care of your hygiene and mind your manners and you should find providers are very responsive to you.

Again, I am a newbie (my first post on here). But your question was one I pondered before I ventured into the hobby.

Good luck, and if any experts read this and I was off base, please let us both know.

You cash is what makes you attractive.
Don't worry about anything else, just enjoy the fantasy experiences!

Be clean (think that is the number 1 requirement), respectful, have the right amt in the envelope, and you should have no problems.  Make sure you choose a provider with good, and lots of them, reviews by guys with plenty of reviews.

If you do your research properly, you should have a wonderful  time in the hobby.

PM me if you want more insight.

Swim

during the date.  Your hygiene is squeaky clean and the envelpe is correct, no mention about it, etc.  

Follow the lady's instruction re. the envelope.  If her web site put the envelope in the rest room before the date begins then do that.  Some ladies want to count the envelope in privacy.  Don't ask her "Were the 3 benjs OK or did you want smaller bills?"  

Get that money situation done and don't mention it.  She is part of your fantasy and you hers.  Money just gets in the way.  Don't think of it, its just a tool, remember that.  Enjoy your fantasy and make love for an hour. That is what its all about, for me at least......

Most providers are less interested in your age and physical apperance, besides being clean and a gentlemen and moreso in the envelope.