After doing research here on TER and getting some helpful advice I was able to have my first provider sessions this past week.
The first time actually turned out to be a somewhat disappointing clock-watching session that I blame mostly on me for being a noob but it was more than made up for by the second time.
After the first time I actually was discouraged enough to consider that maybe I wasn't cut out to be a hobbyist but like my first crash while learning to ride a motorcycle I decided to hop back on and give it another go and boy I'm sure glad I did!
The second time was absolute bliss! She was as fun to talk to as she was in bed and we mixed a fair bit of both as our session meandered past the alloted time. I actually felt guilty as I realized she'd let me stay longer. We were already talking about doing a proper longer session the next time I was in town as we got dressed and I can't wait until then.
Again, thank you to the website and the helpful people here for an experience to remember. I hope that other newbies can see by my example that there are wonderful providers out there who are more than willing to accommodate us new guys.
And yes, a review is forthcoming when I get a chance to write something that will do it justice.

Glad you hit it off with the second lady. Just chalk up the first one to part of your education. There are some wonderful women here who can make you feel like a king.

Enjoy!

Research and perseverance do indeed pay off in the end!  

Just be sure not to mention that she let you stay OT in your review...other guys will read that, and expect that also.  She may have given you special treatment because because she was comfortable with you, and wants you to follow through about seeing her again...enjoy your good fortune, but don't broadcast it.   I may not have needed to say that, but this is the newbie board...

Actually since this would be my first review I'm happy to hear any pointers. I was thinking it wouldn't be good to mention the OT part and you confirmed it for me. I felt very fortunate she let me stay longer than supposed to and certainly plan to show her my appreciation again the next time we see each other

Any service that may be provided to you that is not on the providers profile (rimming, Greek bbbj instead of cbj ) also known as "not on the menu" should not be mentioned in a review. It can cause the provider some grief if mentioned. However for OT sessions, words such as unrushed, or not a clock watcher can be vague enough that it will still compliment the provider.  It's all part of ymmv and speficis are better left unsaid.

Good things to know, thanks! I just submitted the review and next I'll be sure to take your other piece of advice and try to up my batting average as my schedule allows lol.