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McLovin4U 2441 reads
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Very new to this, I’ve been reading this discussion board for several months and I’m looking for advice regarding screening.  I totally understand and agree why providers need to screen clients but I’m wondering what screening service most people use and what is the safest.  I would have made the leap into this hobby quite some time ago but just haven’t had the nerve to put my personal information on a providers website form.  

Any help would be greatly appreciated!!

anchorit 792 reads
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jaydalee See my TER Reviews 595 reads
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Date-Check.com or Preferred411.com they are both verification sites and you can also search for ladies in your area on these sites.
Good luck!

TheKarateKid 7 Reviews 694 reads
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Depending on where you hobby, not all of the verification services are used by providers nationwide.  For example, "Room Service 2000 " is very popular in the mid-west region and many providers, especially in Chicago, often require RS2000 for verification.  I'm based in Chicago, so I'm a member and I've had no problems with their service.

The other 2 popular verification services are Preferred411 and Date Check.  I've used Date Check when I traveled to the west coast.  I'm not a member of P411, but I believe it's also popular on both the east and west coast regions.

Also, even if you belong to a verification service, some providers will also request provider references as well.

PoliteVisitor 26 Reviews 1028 reads
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If you don't want to use a screening service, you can consider providing your personal information to a well-established, careful, reviewed independent provider who will not require references but who may be willing to give them.  From there, if she will give you a reference (I usually limit my requests for a reference to the number of times I have seen the provider), you can have a second provider to give you a reference for your next time.

There is always risk, but I believe the risk in providing personal information to a known and reputable provider is minimal.  In more than a decade in this hobby, I have not encountered an instance where an independent provider's client information was made public.  Agencies, yes; Eliott Spitzer and David Vitter can attest to the vulnerabilities of agency lists.  And if you are a public figure, you are taking a HUGE risk in any kind of non-marital sexual activity.  But the ordinary client has a much greater risk of a car accident on the way to the incall location than he has in the misuse of his name or employer.

There are two perceived risks from disclosing your personal information: (1) public disclosure in the event the provider is arrested or otherwise investigated by LE; and (2) provider blackmail.  There are instances of the former happening, but as I mentioned, I know of know documented instances where an independent provider's client list was publicly revealed.*  And if the provider does rigorously screen, that only assists in your protection.

As for the second risk, again, I have simply never seen it happen.  I can't rule it out, but it seems to be wholly improbable, especially for a well-reviewed, established provider.  Such a woman wants repeat clients, and wants a good reputation.  You would have to be really rich and really vulnerable for blackmail to be remotely profitable.

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*The "Sugarloaf Madam" episode in Atlanta, where a provider was alleged to be involved with drugs as well as sex-for-money, is as close as I can recall where there was such a risk.  The media claimed there was a "black book" and there were articles suggesting it would be made public, but it never was.

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