As a person who has never been with an escort and who is retired, what do I have to do to be with an escort? Tried three things already. Called an escort, for a visit to my hotel, and she never showed up and never called. Called an agency and they wanted me to jump through all sorts of hoops to see one of their escorts including sending a money order by mail. Called DateCheck and asked them how I would get verified. They told me, sorry, we don't verify retired people. I was willing to provide them with all sorts of ID, photos, etc. Even personal references. I had ongoing top secret clearances in the Navy but somehow can't qualify to see an escort. Is this a joke?

They usually have screening methods for people who are not currently employed, and should be able to get you through the process with some other documentation/steps. P411 also lists if providers see clients with no references, one reference, etc, so look for newbie friendly providers. Once you get 1-2 references you're good to go!

I don't fully understand the ins and outs of verification processes of different agencies but I do understand WHY they do it.
I'm thinking that ANY veteran, retired or not, should be given special consideration  

There are many who never came back or came back in pieces. I feel very lucky to have come back in one piece. Unfortunately, I just don't think that providers or the agencies care one way or another if you are ex military. And, if the truth be know, they probably shouldn't. There are an awful lot of people who make sacrifices in other ways.  

Well said Thundercloud.  Be safe & enjoy the fruits of the foundation laid down for us by so many.

...The replies you've received here are good ones. I recommend you do a search on this board for all your previous questions and follow the advice given. P411 is one of the answers you received several months ago. Nothing has changed since the last time you asked about this. It's time to play ball or get out of the game. Had you asked something new I'd have more for you but it seems you just keep asking the same questions wanting different answers.  

Many of us have given the OP very good advice for months, He is now must have at least a hundred posts, and never does he seem to take the good advice he has been given. Millions of us have served in the armed forces, simply being a veteran does not give you the right to be a douche.

I don't know what advice you gave me that is specific to what I just stated. I called a TER verified provider and she never showed up. I called a TER verified agency and they wanted me to Fedex a money order before they would even talk to me. I called Date Check and they don't verify retired people. What other "good" advice am I supposed to take?  

...the free 6 months membership. You would need to have seen some providers in order to qualify but it's there. I don't believe you ever responded to me.

Do you have a strong online presence that can be verified?  For example a solid profile on LinkedIn?  

Prepayment to get verified is a red flag -- avoid! Given your difficulties and the comments here, I'm guessing that you either haven't inquired much at all or you're limiting your search to your rural area which doesn't have many options. Cast a wider net by searching and booking in a major metropolitan area.

Appreciate your thank you, however one never needs thanks for helping to protect their country.

I think that I had mentioned I have never been with a provider and I am retired.  

The escort that I called talked to me for a couple of minutes and verified that I was staying at the Residence Inn under my real name. Had both the hotel number and my cell phone number. She made an appointment to come to my room by 8 PM. Never arrived and never called. I did not call her back because I'm not going to chase after an escort that apparently doesn't want to see me.  

Actually Orlando is a pretty big city. However, I may be going about this all wrong. Think I should just get on the telephone and call the TER reviewed escorts, that I may be interested in, in the Orlando or Tampa area. I've been very reluctant to do that as I did not have all of my T's crossed and I's dotted. I also have to be careful as I have a family.  

Forget the phone it is not your friend initially.  If you look most providers say they prefer an email or to fill out their online form.

If the ladies your are most interested are among the the most in-demand in your area, then it's likely that they will have more stringent screening standards. You may have to see a few ladies further down the list in order to get the requisite references that will open the door to a broader playing field.  

Your situation requires a more personal touch.

Veterans can be douche bags too. They get screened just the same as any john.

...P411 (but not just my posts) you will find information about P411 having an 800 number listed on their web site. You can call that number and actually talk to someone about what information they can use to verify you. P411 has the reputation of working with guys to get them verified. (Hell, most of us are retired. I'm retired and I had been for 4 years when I got screened in about 10 minutes to see my first provider at one of the Top agencies in my city.)

If you plan on seeing professional and hot providers then I would sign up for P411 and get a VIP membership for TER. This allows you to PM (private message) ladies directly as well as communicate with hobbyist who can provide you with some background and help. Good Luck.

Thanks to all who replied with usable information. However, I think I'm irritating a couple of people so, will take the advice I've been given and get off this TER forum for good.