Newbie - FAQ

Everyone is asking for references... how can I start as a newbie?
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Some agencies are asking my work information which I am scared to give out.  Do they actually call my workplace to see if I work there?

I'm willing to send a picture of my ID and bills, but I don't know what else to do to get verified without references.  

Can anyone give me any tips?  Thanks!

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I started by getting verified through P411, and then using that to see women who list themselves as newbie friendly on that site.  They then served as references for me to see other ladies.  P411 will likely call your work simply to verify that you do in fact work there, but will be very discreet.  In fact, if I recall correctly you can when you register with them give them any cover story you'd like them to use when they call your office.

ending a photo ID, does not prove YOU are the one in it. Sending a copy of bills, does not prove they are your bills. What you send over the net, is forever. Calling you at work from a blocked number, is less risky than what you're willing to send out to some random stranger. Join P411. Give your info. to ONE person who does not need to keep you from giving her a bad review, rip you off, or bait and switch you, and then providers never know who you are

Thank you.  I signed up for P411.

Posted By: London Rayne
 
 Sending a photo ID, does not prove YOU are the one in it. Sending a copy of bills, does not prove they are your bills. What you send over the net, is forever. Calling you at work from a blocked number, is less risky than what you're willing to send out to some random stranger. Join P411. Give your info. to ONE person who does not need to keep you from giving her a bad review, rip you off, or bait and switch you, and then providers never know who you are.  
   
   
 

.....if I've said it once.....

:-)

Had an extended date with an escort last weekend bud, and not that I didn't already know this crap happens, but....the stories she shared as we were just holding eachother afterwards were enough to make me cry, especially shit that happened early on while she was learning the ropes.  There are good reasons for the security measures being in place for these ladies, just be patient and do things the right way and it is all good.

I am retired, how do you work around the "job" requirements?

IT guy, work from home.  Multiple lappys going at one, just need to keep straight which is which.

:-)

Six or seven years from now I will be able to just say that you and I have that in common.

you. It is either or with me. You either have refs, or you must have valid employment that I can verify.

I can use your name vs. phone or property records, for example.  As long as you're being upfront and forthcoming, we can work something out.

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