So you see an advertisement for an escort. The advertisement shows some of her body with her face either not shown or disguised, which seems to be pretty prevalent. You wish to employ the escort. After speaking with her and before you make arrangements to meet, does she provide face photos of herself? Or, do you just hope that when you meet and pay $500 to $800 that she will look like someone you want to make love to? For a few of us guys a girl's face is at least 50% or more of the attraction . Unless you're a dog and just want to jump on anything for a few minutes and then leave, the entire package is very important to you especially if you're laying out a lot of money. So tell me, how many of you guys see the girl's face for the first time in her residence or in your hotel room, and after you have booked the meeting? I have seen a few reviews that stated a disappointment when you see the girl up close and personal for the first time. Which tells me that you either never knew what she looked like to begin with or it was a bait and switch. At least with a bait and switch you can probably cancel the meeting based upon that.

Those times are when a trusted hobby guy or gal recommends someone to me.  I'm not gonna shell out the big bucks if I don't have a pretty good idea of what she looks like.  If I'm not physically attracted to her, I'm probably not going to be interested in seeing her anyway.  I'd say, so far I've been pretty lucky not to have any huge disappointments in the looks department.

She would be foolish to send face pics to anyone might want to see her. As soon as she sends a pic she loses control of it and has no idea what you will use it for.  
The only times I have seen a provider's face before meeting was when I was just getting started in P4P and that is the only time in my career that I have ever been disappointed in the quality of the experience. Now when I have researched someone to the point that I want to meet her, I have no doubt that she will live up to my expectations.

If the lady is reputable (consistent good reviews) and you do your research, the overwhelming chance is that you will be pleased. That has been my consistent experience.  

For those of us who don't show our faces (or other identifying stuff), it's to protect our privacy. If I were to send a photo of my face to a potential client, I'd have no way of knowing or controlling what he'd do with that photo.  

Do your research and don't rush to see your first. Reviews! Reviews! Reviews! When multiple reviews give her high ratings chances are you won't be disappointed.

I have a life and like you, I keep this part of my life private.

Posted By: Tobi Telford

For those of us who don't show our faces (or other identifying stuff), it's to protect our privacy. If I were to send a photo of my face to a potential client, I'd have no way of knowing or controlling what he'd do with that photo.  
   
 There's no way to guarantee that you'll like a chick's face if she obscures it in her advertising photos. Your options are A) see ladies who do show their faces, or B) trust reviews. If she consistently gets high marks for appearance, chances are she doesn't have a fucked up mug.  
   
 Just a friendly tip: don't ask girls who obscure their faces to send you photos. It pisses us off.

I'm a face guy, for sure.  Sometimes, you just have to take a chance.  I have sometimes been disappointed by own expectations.  Which brings me to types of disappointment.

that if you're thinking about spending $500 to $800 for a gal, she'll be reviewed. I also hope that if she's at that price range, she'll be reviewed. If she's butt ugly, has some sort of disfigurement, etc, it would have been mentioned. Sadly, there's no way to know you'll find her attractive until you actually see her. What is good looking to one man, is not necessarily good looking to another.

For myself I don't seek out escorts that charge $500 to $800 for an hour. Out of my price range. I was simply making a point and used the higher end figures as it would seem absurd to make the point based upon a $100 to $150 per hour escort. Just because an escort is well reviewed does not mean that I personally would like her looks. If I were paying the high end fee and was not satisfied with her looks when she arrived, then that would be a turn off for me. I don't care how great a body she has if her face does not interest me. As I stated, I'm not a dog who's sole purpose in sex is to mount, do it's thing, and dismount. I have actually seen many good reviews on TER for girls that I would never be interested in simply because her look was not my type, whether she was pretty or not. Pretty is subjective. One man's pretty is another man's forget it.  

...that P4P is not for you. You make up questions and ask for advice only to come back and say all the good advice and opinions you get are wrong or don't apply to you. It may be time for you to find a different hobby, try knitting or maybe if you take up sculpting you can create your own perfect woman because it sounds like the only way she will exist is if you make her yourself.

If you really have to feel strongly about anyone you fuck, TER isn't for you

You asked a question and several people (myself included) took the time to give you some helpful responses that are coming from experienced perspectives. So far, every time you've asked a question here, you've become argumentative and snarky whenever people give you answers. The appropriate response to people here giving you valuable information is "thank you," not a bunch of argument and insinuations about the people here. That's quite rude.  

Sorry, my friend, but I did ask a legitimate question. And, that was, why someone would put out a great deal of money to employ an escort where they have never seen her face. An escort is selling a product, just like any other product. I was not talking about inexpensive escorts. I was talking about high end escorts. Maybe you have $500 to $800 burning a hole in your pocket to give to someone who you've never even seen the face of. The way I look at it, if these escorts want to remain anonymous they are in the wrong business. Since a girl's face has a lot to do with how some men feel sexually toward her, at least where I come from, then would it not be too much of a stretch to assume that a man would want to know what she looks like and not just what her body looks like before booking her? That is all I am saying. It's not arguing with anyone or insinuation. It's trying to determine a specific reason for why a certain thing is done. Many men may also be able to separate the sexual act from romance, which is the artistic side of our souls. I cannot and I'm quite sure many men cannot. Any animal can have sex. There is no romance in the animal kingdom. However, it still does exist in the humane kingdom and it's what separates us from the beasts.  

...trolling us.  I hate to say this on the newbie board, but this guy's been "waffling" for a few months now.  I'm calling troll, mean as it sounds.  The number of DNS lists he's on by this point is probably well into double digits.

Your little shtick will play better on the GD board.

Except more so because there are no constraints on the GD board.  His last post was 5/4.  I'm starting to wonder if he's an alt account for one of the regulars.

It's that simple.  Easy answer.

...This is an illegal activity. Even where it's legal in Nevada all the social stigma exists. This should be sufficient to explain why many ladies choose to cover or completely cut their head or face out of the photo.

And a very simple answer. Those men who do that( shell out a good amount of money to visit hookers who hide their identity from public view) seem quite comfortable with it or they would only see hookers who show their faces.  

Thank you, sir, for the straightforward answer to my questioning without any of the recriminations. The one reason that I do not frequent forums very much is that there are always people who somehow find it offensive if someone goes a little beyond their comfort zone. They get defensive and angry. Yes. I do ask a lot of questions and do present scenarios. If I am questioning something I either do not understand the reasoning for a particular thing or do not feel 100% comfortable with it. The LE aspect of the entire process has me very apprehensive although there are some people here who have told me, in a sense, not to worry about it. Even though I do understand the privacy reasons for an escort not showing her face in an advertisement, I don't understand why any man would hire an escort when he does not even know what she looks like. One would think that if you were willing to book and pay for an escort that she would at least email you her face photo before you meet. When you have family that you live with and care about there are so many things you have to worry about when straying from the base. There are probably plenty of single, separated, and divorced guys on this forum who really don't have a whole lot to lose if they get arrested or if someone finds out what they are doing with their free time. There are others, that may be married, but maybe don't care whether their wife knows. I would really like to have some extracurricular fun her in the United States where I live and not have to travel out of the country to find it. But, I have to be pretty certain that it will be a relatively safe and private venture.  The only way that I can do that is to question and research opinions from people such as yourself. And, being called a troll by some on this forum is truly the sign of arrogance.