Hi im new to this. I'm interested in seeing an escort but she asks for references. I don't have any. What should I do

There are lots of threads on this topic.  Verification sites are a good assist in getting referenced.  Also read reviews and look for newbie-friendly providers.

Swim

Preferred 411 seems to be the best of the bunch, IMO. There is also DataCheck and RoomService2000. You will be required to give up some personal information to join and expect to be verified, but once you are, you will have access to a directory of providers that are members of those services. Many of the providers are Newbie friendly.