It was very so so for $1200. (9PM-9AM) Fucked, ate, played cards, slept, had breakfast. Really no better or worse than a civee date. It could of been alot better, had my choice of ladies been better. (appearance)
Next time, it will be with the likes of a Nikki Avalon or such. ( who, btw had agreed to an over-nite stay with me ) but i decided to go with the lower dollar deal, with someone else.
Hell, even if your not fucking the whole time ( which, you are not ), just being in the company of a lady like Nikki, would be money well spent, no matter what your doing!
I will never do it again with just an average looking women, i can do that for free.
My advice, find the most beautiful provider you can ( in Vegas or where ever ) spend the money and makes some memories that will last a life time.
I know i'm going to, don't care what it costs!!
So I'm curious about an overnight visit with a provider. I have only had 1-2 hour appointments and had toyed around with doing an overnight with the right gal. What should I expect with a date that long? The person whom I would be interested in an overnight with, has a nice incall spot.
I imagine dinner would be nice, but how many hours is a typical overnight date? How many times do you have fun in that time? Has anyone requested the lady try on different outfits? Just curious...if anyone has any input I would love to hear it.
I have done several. They are a lot of fun, but I recommend that you have some regular hour dates with the provider before trying an overnight date. Reason being, what if you don't click? No chemistry? Recipe for disaster.
Mine included dinner and breakfast and of course, plenty of play time. But there is sleep time too. How long you are together depends on her. Look at the website, she may have a time limit, maybe something to negotiate.
Read my review of Ashley Shye, that was my first overnighter. That should give you an idea. It's the only one where I brought in another provider.
Swim
I've done two, both with the same lady and as others have said, you need to make certain the two of you get along together before trying an overnight. Both of mine were at fancy resorts, started around 3 PM and ended just before noon the next day. Some shopping, playtime, dinner, more play time, 6-7 hours sleeping, more playtime , breakfast and a fond farewell. Loved every minute of it!
I imagine dinner would be nice, but how many hours is a typical overnight date? How many times do you have fun in that time? Has anyone requested the lady try on different outfits? Just curious...if anyone has any input I would love to hear it.
I've had one, overseas, where I would not have had the chance to get to know her previously. (The unanimous advice is that you should not try this on a first "date.") But, a fellow TER member whom I trusted vouched for this lady, and even coached me on some things to say and do with her. The date went fabulously: about six hours touristing--she as my tour guide--then play time in the hotel, sleeping, and more play time. A great experience. I would not have done it, though, if I had not had the help of someone I trusted. Things like where to keep your valuables, etc., with someone you don't know, were things he'd already worked through with this lady. (She's entirely trustworthy.) You can see my review of her ("Cat"), in case you're interested.
A typical overnight begins with the preliminary planning, during which the excitement should build. When you meet with her, the first hour or two is called the appetizer, and this should be like any one to two hour meeting you have enjoyed with the lady before. Afterward, it's time to take to take her to dinner, or any other event you both mutually agree upon..,.can be a move, live music/concert, Broadway show, sporting event, hobby related activity such as going to an M&G or hitting a strip or swingers club. At the end of the night, dessert. Extended play-time with her until it's time to go to sleep. In the morning, she should rock your world yet again for the final time before you both depart. Asking to take her her to breakfast is a nice touch, and many will be happy to do so.
After all is said and done, you and the lady will be closer, if you have chosen right...
I know that some girls provide rates for overnights and that this results in a cheaper hourly rate, but still, the rent is to damn high for me. I just can't afford to plop down $3,000 on an overnight. So my question is this. Have you ever negotiated the non-dessert related time spent together for a much lower rate? For example, let's say I want to take a girl to a nice restaurant and then take her to a concert after. That will eat up about 6-7 hours right there. Anyone ever negotiate that time for a much lower rate since you're not fucking during that time? Especially for girls that don't advertise an overnight rate?
.......that won't fly. You can try it, but I doubt if you'll find many takers.
That said, I've seen some ladies' Web sites that do offer a lower rate for non-"play" time. But, they're few and far between.
work out something that makes sense based on your example. But typically I wouldn't broach this with a gal I have not seen several times at her going rates. I find that if I buy two hour sessions to start with and want to include lunch/dinner extending the dates now to your example times (4-7 hours), I suggest to a gal that I won't compensate for the out and about time.
It is then their decision as to the OTC time. And I do understand you are willing to pay a lady something for that out and about time, but my "attitude" is I have many friends, colleagues, peers and so on that I can take for lunch for free.
Thus far I haven't had a gal not "take me up" on my suggestions. But YMMV is very much in play with this type of arrangement. But if you don't ask, she won't offer!
I would work up to an overnight date. First spend 4 to 5 hours on a dinner or lunch date together, overnight dates are a lot of fun but you are going to be sleeping during a bunch of that time. I would first see how you enjoy just spending time with the lady. For me a multi hour date say play for 1 or 2 hours, go out for a meal together and play again afterward is a better start to see how you both get along. Also it is best to discuss this ahead of time with the lady while you are having one of your usual meetings. That way your both clear on what your planning to do and expect.
I imagine dinner would be nice, but how many hours is a typical overnight date? How many times do you have fun in that time? Has anyone requested the lady try on different outfits? Just curious...if anyone has any input I would love to hear it.
Glad I found this thread rather than starting a new one, I have a few questions, as well (that I hope I haven't missed above):
I'm planning a trip in a couple of months where I'll have a nice suite. In terms of valuables, can I assume the safe in the room will be sufficient? I don't have to worry too much about regular clothing/luggage, right? (I'm sorry, that question sounds ridiculous to me already) I've only ever indulged in Incalls, previously, so I'll be doing two new things here.
I have a few girls in mind, including a few whose reviews include some overnight sessions despite, from all appearances, not having seen the reviewer previously. My thought is that I should try and meet with the girl at least once before requesting an overnight. I don't think I can rely on seeing any of them online here and am skeptical of my ability to get a useful email correspondence So fear I'll have to rely on a face-to-face session to establish that important rapport. To the veterans, does this sound reasonable?
Do agencies provide overnight dates? Even if they do, is it better to go independent?
Really, I'm looking for any and all tips and advice because I'm sure there are things I haven't thought of. Advice on dinner (what to look for, what to a avoid), other extra-curricular activities (shows, movies, clubs, etc... What works best), heck, even the prospect of bringing in a second provider (like Swim's experience), though that might be a bit *too* ambitious for me at this point...
Is there a "Dummy's Guide to Overnight Hobbying"?
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Updated threads don't get pushed to the top or put on the front page, should I start a new thread? I do have different questions from I those posed by the OP...
Glad I found this thread rather than starting a new one, I have a few questions, as well (that I hope I haven't missed above):
I'm planning a trip in a couple of months where I'll have a nice suite. In terms of valuables, can I assume the safe in the room will be sufficient? I don't have to worry too much about regular clothing/luggage, right? (I'm sorry, that question sounds ridiculous to me already) I've only ever indulged in Incalls, previously, so I'll be doing two new things here.
I have a few girls in mind, including a few whose reviews include some overnight sessions despite, from all appearances, not having seen the reviewer previously. My thought is that I should try and meet with the girl at least once before requesting an overnight. I don't think I can rely on seeing any of them online here and am skeptical of my ability to get a useful email correspondence So fear I'll have to rely on a face-to-face session to establish that important rapport. To the veterans, does this sound reasonable?
Do agencies provide overnight dates? Even if they do, is it better to go independent?
Really, I'm looking for any and all tips and advice because I'm sure there are things I haven't thought of. Advice on dinner (what to look for, what to a avoid), other extra-curricular activities (shows, movies, clubs, etc... What works best), heck, even the prospect of bringing in a second provider (like Swim's experience), though that might be a bit *too* ambitious for me at this point...
Is there a "Dummy's Guide to Overnight Hobbying"?
It was very so so for $1200. (9PM-9AM) Fucked, ate, played cards, slept, had breakfast. Really no better or worse than a civee date. It could of been alot better, had my choice of ladies been better. (appearance)
Next time, it will be with the likes of a Nikki Avalon or such. ( who, btw had agreed to an over-nite stay with me ) but i decided to go with the lower dollar deal, with someone else.
Hell, even if your not fucking the whole time ( which, you are not ), just being in the company of a lady like Nikki, would be money well spent, no matter what your doing!
I will never do it again with just an average looking women, i can do that for free.
My advice, find the most beautiful provider you can ( in Vegas or where ever ) spend the money and makes some memories that will last a life time.
I know i'm going to, don't care what it costs!!