I have yet to come up with a good list of qualifying questions to ask a provider to better understand her approach to creating a top quality experience.  Look at any website or ad, providers are always touting the "best or ultimate experience" to maintain price value but it's completely subjective and non-transparent.  Quite honestly, it's overwhelming simply based on the sheer number of choices and all ads and websites pretty much look and sound the same.  I should have gone into web design for the hobbying industry...ha ha.

Here is my dilemma.  Reviews by other hobbyists are just a component of what I use to assess quality in searching for a provider but it's not the only component.  Let's partner together to have more control in creating a quality by design approach up front.  It would save us both a lot of time and energy.

Providers, what types of questions would be applicable to ask during the initial and follow up communications to learn more about your approach to creating a quality experience given the obvious topic restrictions of money and services?  Let's move beyond here is my info you need to verify, set a date/time, and for how long...and let's not forget the obligatory value-added special outfit piece.

Any information you can provide to make the selection process more streamlined to lead to a more well informed decision is greatly appreciated.  Thanks for the help!  And this is NOT a duplicate thread of Quality vs. Quantity which discussed provider preference between the two.  This is different.


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Like Nike says Just do it!
Yes, you need to research. Find out as much as you can about the lady. Read her reviews. Check out other reviews written by her reviewers. See that many of her reviewers have a lot of reviews. Look at her photos. See her TER profile. If everything is to your liking, Go for it! Ultimately you can't tell about it until you experience it.

You are trying to apply rules of the general business world to this game.  It simply will not work because you are dealing with independent providers in an illegal business where there are a lot of quirky people on both sides of the transaction.
Beyond that, for their safety, no girls will discuss specific acts until you are fully screened, in the room with them and have dropped the envelope.  So to find out what they do, you are limited to going on their web site, though many do not list acts there; going to their P411 listing; reading reviews and PMing reviewers.  That's it.  And, as someone said, even then there's YMMV: she may not do with you all the things she has done with someone else.
If you want a risk-free, completely predictable experience you are in the wrong game.

When you open the door to a lovely, smiling woman, you feel comfortable, and want her to the core of your being, with every moment confirming that.

There are all sorts of ways to hobby. These include the one-shot guy, looking for the perfect, new body, the romantic who picks a woman and only wants to see her until that comes to an end, the serial/parallel romantic who likes a lot of girlfriends, the lonely guy who wants friends, and more. Part of doing this is discovering which one of those people you are - because what you think you want is often not what you end up enjoying.

I started out thinking I wanted perky, little blonde cheerleaders who loved DATY, and BBBJ. I ended up finding that I like older, smarter, quirkier and fiercer women who are, above all else, passionate and comfortable with what they are doing. I do have a specific physcial type I prefer, and certain menu items that are best for me, but the ladies I enjoy seeing most do not necessarily meet those criteria. Instead, they turn out to be ladies I like, enjoy being with, and who either share or do a great job pretending to share my interests and approach. Most likely some of both.

As others said, pick a lady and go meet her. If that does not work, pick another. With each lady you will learn more about this world, about yourself, and about what you do and do not like. Most of the time you will also have a lot of fun. Keep in mind that the foundation of all this is intimate time that you share with another person, not a predefined, economic transaction where you provide money and she, mechanically, provides certain requested services. Actually I have had the latter, so it does exist, but it is not worth my time or money.

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to PM other hobbyists who have reviewed the gal if you have any further questions!

and invasive questions that he is going to have me pulling my hair out, I pass. As for being selective via email, it is rather simple.

1. I price myself out of the bang for the buck market from the get go. 2. I have a very tough schedule when someone is able to see me, so that requires them to give me 24-48 hours notice..that weeds out the late night, drunken bsers. 3. Any email that is not inclusive to the information I require, gets deleted...end of story.

A hobbyist has a different selection process, but from your posts on the GD, you seem to be a more pop oriented, bang for your buck, non-gfe type of suitor, so all the education and conversation skills another monger might be looking for, might not mean a thing to you. In short, whether your realize it or not, you are in fact marketing YOURSELF in this equation. What you post and look for will determine what girls will see you, and which ones will not even return an email from you.

There are plenty of different types of providers from the "Available 24/7 blow and gos" to the ones who demand you book a minimum of 2 or more hours, and require more screening. There are hotel only providers guys would never take in public, and there are providers who are hired for that very reason then the sex is a bonus. You have the guys who want a hole to fill and don't much care if the provider can speak at all much less in complete sentences, and you have those guys who put education and wit before beauty.

Then you have the fast money providers who have only a month or so to buy a car, and they see all the guys they can then disappear. On the flip side, you have the low volume providers who do this only a few days a month and charge more than the market will bear to avoid a slew of clients. Finally, you have the extreme HDH who lives this lifestyle to the fullest including all that marketing jargon you like to talk about. They are more geared to the long term, SD, MIstress type encounters, and for less than 5-10k a month...upfront, you can't touch them.

You are trying to correlate an illegal business based on different tastes to a one size fits all marketing approach..it simply does not work. Most providers here are NOT trying to market themselves to everyone...we each have a certain demographic if you will of guys we want to target. Our websites, photos, ads, and writing content attract exactly the types of suitors we want to spend time with. The ones boasting about "Uh, you're off my list" are the very ones we DON'T want to see in the first place lol.





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You pays your money and you takes your chances.

If that's too rich for your blood then I dare say you are in the wrong hobby.

find yourself a lady with big tits, a pretty kitty and a nice ass....fill up the envelope and get your ass in the car!!!
Have fun!!