Small towns can be very tricky; everyone knows everyone and you have to show ID to get a room.  You never know if that desk clerk knows someone who knows you and will spread the word.

If she gets a room a ways from town, and you can sneak in under cover of dark, then maybe.

Ok seasoned hobbiest, how does one hobby in a small city? I've been screened by a well reviewed provider but her visits are not very often and I have not had a visit yet. There are some locals on another site but the first one stated, (lets just meet @ the hotel) I passed. Some have reviews but not here.  Any advice would be appreciated. It's at least a 1.5 hour ride to a larger city. Thanks all

there some available closer but the risk of being discovered is too high.  Better to go out of town to her location.   Occasionally a Lady has a location in between which I am sure to take advantage of but otherwise I go to them.
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The chances of you getting made are a lot smaller. I live in a small city, but drive to a nearby major city when I hobby in the homeland.

Thanks to you all. I respect all of your wisdom and input. Going to take a road trip soon!!!

I am lucky enough to live about two hours from Montreal, the Mecca for hobbists.

The four hours in a car (each way) are quite a hassle but it is worth it. Where I live there is no such thing as under the radar.

Drive she said!

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Have her travel to you. I'll make a drive like that for a multi-hour appointment. (If you're totally new, I'd get my toes wet before booking a multi-hour though.)