If one arrives at the incall direct from work...  I'm assuming the lady would prefer the gentleman take a quick shower...  Is it OK to e-mail her with this request in advance?  (so she'll know to have a towel ready)

Not wanting to appear crass...  How does one make their appearance after the shower?  Towel?  Underwear?  Redress?
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Don't redress.
Don't put your underroos back on.
Don't put your socks on (true story! Why do guys replace the socks?)

Walk out with the towel around your waist : ).

-- Modified on 12/21/2008 9:00:45 AM

no, you don't need to e-mail her in advance. Showering at the beginning of a meeting is absolutely standard and anticipated.

I've never had a provider ask me NOT to take a shower first when I asked if I could. Actually they usually thank me for doing so in more ways than one...he..he

If it's my first time with a provider then I just put a towel on and walk out that way. If I've been with her before I don't bother. Heck, she's seen me before and so no surprise!

Good luck!

I bring a change of clothes with me if I am coming from work. My ATF has a favorite pair of themed boxers that I wear out of the shower.  Admittedly  they don't stay on for long but it's sort of a tradition.

I think that with a new lady it's a good idea to come out in the towel.  It really should be necessary to email about wanting a shower. Any good lady will encourage this.

I have been making my reappearance with a towel around my waist.

On one occasion, the provider showered with me, so we  both walked back to the bed naked.

I always walk out with a tower around my waist.  Walking around buck naked around someone I just met feels too awkward for me.  Of course, once me and her start DFK-ing, all awkwardness vanishes in an instant.

-- Modified on 12/22/2008 9:43:16 PM