I've been in strip clubs where the usual rule is during a lapdance, no touching is allowed.  I realize that this is a ymmmv situation, but is there any sort of standard as to what kind of touching is ok & expected and what kind is generally not tolerated when with a provider?

I'm new to this, so I may not have the right answer, but what I try to do is ask before touching.

If you wan't touchey feely and most of us do. You need to find someone that advertises what they do, (Girl Friend Experience, Pure Sexual Experience, just ask her what rules apply, some will say no greek, some no fingers in hole, true GFE providers will go most places with a kind caring client, just warm up slowly, remember they are someones daughter.

For a particular lady, do your homework and check her reviews.  If there is a solid history with mostly consitent grades and remarks then you should get a good feel for what is allowed or not.

Once you are with her then you still have opportunity to learn her rules if you are unsure. You can be straightforward and directly ask her about her rules before you start.  Do not be afraid to ask questions once you are in the company of each other. You can also be somewhat more smooth and subtle and read her reactions as you engage in your funtime.  If you move slowly and deliberately then she will quickly determine what your intention is and she will let you know if you are about to cross into forbidden territory.    

One last point and of course it is obvious.  No means no.  If you should be shunned from a particular action then suck it up and deal with your disappointment in a respectful manner.  You can always hammer out your lack of satisfaction in a truthful review after the fact.  Just don't be foolish.          

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