Hello,

I wanted to reach out to the community here for some advice/words of wisdom etc. I'm a first timer so I'm nervous as hell as I think every girl I reach out to will either be a fake, uc cop or will try to rob me. I know... very childish thinking. Anyway, Ive reached out to a few ladies on Eros and one has aked me to call her. I just want to protect myself. Thank you in advance for any feedback.

Cheers!

The best way to use it is to pay for VIP, so you can search and read reviews. An ad on eros doesn't mean anything, but if you look for reputable well reviewed providers, you should do fine. You can start your search right here, or you can find ladies on sites like eros, then check if they have reviews here.

Read the self help manual, which you can find near the life preserver at the top of the main newbie page.
Also read back on this board for lots of good information.

I too was initially scared...

I would advice couple of things...

1. Get a VIP membership for at least paying for one month..

2. Then use the Search feature to find ladies with good reviews in your area. If the girl has good reviews from established hobbyists (the hobbyist should have more than a few reviews himself under his belt, and you can find that by clicking on the hobbyist's handle) then you have very low probability that she will rip you off or will end up being a cop.

You can also use the Self Help Center, which gives you some common sense advice on what to do and what not to do.. The things you shouldn't say during your appointment, and how to conduct yourself.

Have fun..

Curly...

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We all were before our first encounter.  Relax, follow the advice given above.  Get VIP, read the self help center from cover to cover.  If you have an SO, you should  consider getting a hobby phone and a hobby email.  Another thing, consider joining one or more of the verification sites.  That will help you get started.  Preferred411 lets t he girls say if they are  newbie friendly on their profiles, look for them.  Plus, good idea to see well reviewed providers at first with reviews by established reviewers.  There are many threads on this forum discussing all this stuff.  Search and read them.

Swim

Search the reviews.  Crosscheck the reviewers themselves to see whether they are reputable.  PM them and see what else they might be willing to share about the girls in question.

If you are still scared after all that, then hang it up and don't partake.  Life is about risks.  If this isn't one you wanna take, then walk away.  No one is pointing a gun at your head.