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Today was first try with escort.  Before today, only been with masseuses.  After the "are you a cop" conversation at the beginning, I couldn't relax.

Left unsatisfied after an hour, went home, cranked one out.

MarkusKetterman1661 reads

seeing a really top notch lady, not the assembly line type. If she's asking you if you're a cop, she probably did not screen you, which means she's not one of the top shelf ladies. A real professional provider will know how to put you at ease, know how to make things work for you. You *will* be blown away. Search TER for ladies with an average rating of at least 8, and reviews going back at least two years, preferably more. If she's in the right ballpark, you will have to be screened - she may have a method to do this if you don't have references, or she may suggest that you join date check or preferred 411. If you want to enjoy this sport, make the effort, and be willing to pay the upper tier prices. Make your first a multi hour visit, at least 2hrs. You won't regret it.

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xc222ea1193 reads

Gregory's advice is spot-on.

One further thought – if you are new to this so screening is a problem, it is possible to find some wonderful, highly reviewed ladies who work for agencies. In most cases, agencies simply want to confirm your employment and contact information and don't bother with references. That's often an easier way to start.

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HaleyOrlando1393 reads

I never ask such a stupid question of a gentlemen. It makes him very nervous and serves no purpose. Do ladies still think LE has to tell you what their there for...Only in fairytales

I know many ladies don't kiss but if I were you thats what I would look for. When you walk through the door plant your lips on hers and that should break the ice. It may not work for every lady but if you have done your research well it will work for you next time...Go ahead and tell the lady ahead of time you like to kiss...No need to say anything else.

Guaranteed good time ahead and no caution light needed

Kisses Haley

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hiddenhills1844 reads

Do more research, listen to HaleyOrlando, she the best. Get a VIP membership, it will give you all the details and you will know what the lady will be like bcd. BTW, I have never been asked by an escort "are you a cop". Good luck.

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someguynamedp1072 reads

Without "performing." It can be a little frustrating.

But I have NEVER left unsatisfied.  I choose whom I see very, very carefully and tend to stick with ones whose company I very much enjoy.

-- Modified on 10/31/2008 7:38:39 PM

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keystonekid2337 reads

Think of it like a game.  Once you make the first tackle or block or whatever, the goosebumps should disappear and the fun begins.

Start with some general "get to know you" conversation then begin to caress her and give her a warm kiss.  The rest should take care of itself.

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xc222ea988 reads

Remember, seeing a high-quality provider is nothing like going out with a "civilian." These women are professionals and they know how to get you hard. So you don't need to have any stress or worry. With a girlfriend, if you didn't get hard she might say something or get discouraged. If a provider needs to suck you for ten minutes to get you hard, she will. These are very talented ladies.

Personally, if I ever have an issue, then 69 usually takes care of it. I'm so overwhelmed with sensations, that performance anxiety goes away.

Many, many of us have trouble getting hard – especially for the second time. It's not a big deal at all. The provider won't get discouraged.

You might try to book two hours with one of the best reviewed GFEs you can find. She won't let you down.

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