thanks for the insight.

But then I wonder---what if she simply listed one rate that was the higher one? How do you distinguish between a willingness to do certain more attravagant acts for additional money, but merely charging everyone the same higher rate in case the client wants those extras? Different rates could mean charging more, as you suggest, or instead giving a discount for someone who is more "traditional". A single rate lumps everyone together.

I hope that makes sense. I know what I'm trying to say but reading it, its less clear.

First, most ladies generally mean a visit to mediterranean waters when they indicate a PSE rate. Not all, but most.

The question of whether to request a higher donation for certain activities is one I have debated since I first began providing. Being a lover of greek conversations myself, I have never requested a higher rate for an activity that I myself enjoy. However, in the last few days actually, I finally decided to change my policy.

Here is why. My profile clearly indicates that I am mediterranean friendly. For that reason, I see many gents who come to see me speifically for that activity. Unfortunately, in the case of greek conversation, too much of a good thing really IS a bad thing. So it is not something I indulge frequently. Too often, I have had to apologize to a clearly disappointed gent because I wasn't able to provide the service he was expecting. There have even been a few times when I was asked to give back the donation because of it (no, I certainly did not).

So, my hope is that by creating a separate rate, it will reduce the frequency of requests, and in the event that I must decline, the gentleman will not feel as though he paid for something he did not recieve.

This is an experiment. In more than a year and a half as a provider, I have never tried it this way, and I hope it works out. The point I'm making though, is that seeing dollar signs is not necessarily the only reason for having different rates. Another reason is that we are humans, and must operate within our human limits. Setting different rates allows us to accommodate requests without taking away from the service we provide others. I hope. We'll see

I totally agree.  It's just not sexy when a girl breaks down different prices for different experiences.

Dear Sola:
What would be the conatative extrapolations of the questions that a provider would ask? If you where unsure what other types of questions by being subtle would you ask to glean what the mood should be for your encounter.  Also does certain types of attire tend to pique your gentlemans interest than others and what types of music would they have a preference to as well?

Reviews should certainly give you an idea of the GFE vs. PSE style session.

Even though it's not my practice, I'm amazed that so many don't understand why there is often an additional charge for the greek isles.  Supply and demand.  Too much demand and a lady cannot handle the volumn.  

Additionally, those who offer this service specifically often put time and expense into preparing their bodies, often going so far as to adjust their eating schedule and diet around the time planned.  There are usually different lubes kept in stock for this play, etc.

It IS above and beyond for the lady.  Charging for that extra preparation and care in no way determines if she enjoys the activity or not.

Maybe my answer was more on track with the thread today?  I donno'... darned antihistamines...
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