What is the best way to hand over a tip at the end of a session, or a gift (such as fresh fruit) at the start of a session? Everyone is very clear about how to leave the donation. I wasn't sure if a client should also give a tip or a gift in a particular way.

I have never heard anyone bring fruits to incall as a form of gift. Usually, its flowers, wine, chocolate, perfume etc..

But a dozen of apples? That's comical man.. Don't do it unless its something that's OK with the girl. She might feel insulted or even ridiculed.

To answer your next question, I would just hand it over to her before departing..

I have had gents give me gifts at the beginning of an appt or at the end.
As far as tip some gents have included it already in the envelope or they just hand it to me on the way out.

If I bring a gift, I just drop it down with the envelop at the beginning of the date. I don't tip, but did find this post by mrfisher. He tips old school style. .

will require the physique and youthful charm of mrfisher...  

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don't need reasons to wonder. Same goes with a large gift if she comes to your hotel. Kind of hard to explain carrying a large vase of flowers or basket of fruit out through the hotel lobby.

Small gifts like lingerie, chocolates, gift cards, etc. are much easier to carry in or for her to carry out.

want them to be thrown back at you !!!

i like to give her a kiss and the tip on the way out the door..that way you take advantage of "leaving with a good impression"...

not as a tip, but something nice to enjoy together.
Here's what to do: put the fruit, wine and cheese in a bag. I've had clients use small grocery bags when coming to my apt incall. It's not odd b/c people typically carry groceries into apts, and if it's a big complex, no one's the wiser. At hotels I've had clients bring food and wine in brief cases. you can fit a picnic in one.
but you should consume it with her so she knows it's not poison. you can feed each other fruit in between hot sex, when you're talking. It's always nice.

I carry mine in with a WalMart bag, as those of you who have been reading this forum for a while know.  Looks like I've been shopping to any nosy person, esp if in a hotel.   I just set it down where she can see it when I enter her incall.  Since I bring gifts, I don't tip, but I think the best way of tipping is at the end of the date.  Just stick the extra $ under the envelope if it's still where you left it, or somewhere else obvious where she will see it before you leave.  If you tip ahead of time by adding extra $ in the envelope, and she doesn't look at it, she will not know you tipped her until you are gone.  If I was going to tip, I'd prefer she know before I leave, so she can acknowledge it.

The vast majority of providers will tell you tipping is not required, but always appreciated, same with gifts.

Swim

It's a long drive...  I need all day.  I'll schedule with enough time to stop at a Grocery store just off the highway.  We'll visit & catch up while she preps the groceries before the session, we'll have play time, share a late lunch...  the left overs stay with her (at least enough for another meal or 2).  I'll not be starving on my way home...  or stopping & getting questionable food.  This started because on one occasion she was cooking when I arrived & fed me before departure.  I liked the result but didn't feel right about the cost at her expense.

"but you should consume it with her so she knows it's not poison"

exploding chocolates, poisoned fruit, flowers hiding a deadly spider?
perhaps you should re-evaluate your client base...

                       

I sometimes see touring providers at their hotel, and I would think that bringing food as a gift would be appreciated because of its practicality. Room service can be expensive, going out for food can be time consuming, and groceries might be hard to find.

So far I've only brought fresh fruit, often from a nearby farm, when it's in season. I've thought about bringing a hot meal, but I haven't had the time. The reactions to the fruit I've gotten range from mild to enthusiastic gratitude.

I carry it inside my briefcase, so I don't look out of place.

I usually put everything in a reusable shopping bag like you can get for cheap from a lot of stores like Barnes and Noble or Target. I can fracking bring champagne, extra condoms, toys, lingerie, or whatnot and to a casual observer I'll just look like some random dude coming home with some groceries lol.

Tips I give at the end since they're meant to show appreciation for a good time. I usually have a gift card or two handy and most ladies I've seen like that especially if I do my research lol.