You are paying her to have sex with you.  Whatever fantasy you are living it's not a good idea to lose sight of the reality of the situation.

Place the tip on a visible surface or just hand it to her with a smile and a thank you. You don't need another envelope. I promise you she will appreciate it!

after you've dipped your cone, whats the problem? Just hand it to her or wrap it around your schwing-a-ling-a-ding-dong and watch her eyes light up.

You are giving her money so do you think she cares EOM

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I have searched through these boards, and I have read excellent advice on tipping. However, the mechanics of the thing confuse me. If I wish to tip a lady after a session, how exactly should I go about doing it? Whipping out my wallet and handing her cash seems a bit crass, and also destroys the lingering fantasy. Should I, instead, bring a pre-determined amount in another envelope and leave it on a table before leaving? How do you prefer to give/receive tips?

If she takes the tip, I hand it to her. Some ask me to place it on a table, which I do. If you feel that handing the money to the provider is crass, just take it out of your wallet in her presence and lay it on the nearest table.

I prefer tipping with cash instead of bringing a gift because using cash makes my arrival less noticeable and the lady can decide to use the cash in whatever way she wants to.

the envelope, or just slip it in her hand with a hug and kiss on the way out.

When I receive tips it is given to me when I am leaving usually in my hand when I am hugging him goodbye.A few times I had a gent stick it in my bra.Do whatever is comfortable for you if you are not comfortable handing the tip to a lady you can always put it in another separate envelope.Let the lady know when you are leaving or she is leaving you have something extra for her.I have also had gents include the tip in the initial envelope.Tips are always appreciated never expected but when a gent does give one it is a very nice special bonus.

I don't always tip but I do always keep some money folded up in a separate front pocket. If I'm going to tip I pull the folded bills out and say that I'm just leaving something extra and I set it down on the table where the envelope with the donation is. It seems like it is always appreciated ("oh, you dont have to do that!"...extra hug and kiss).

I started doing this initially because I didn't want to take my wallet in to an inall location with me. I don't worry about this anymore because I'm very careful with who I see. However, it just seems a little tacky to pull out a wallet and count out money in front of the provider.