Tips for making your first phone call any advice will do I just don't know what your supposed to say and what you can or can't ask thanks for your time

I try to be polite and not barter over rates...

Much good information can be found there, and read back a few pages here on the newbie board you can learn a lot doing these two simple thing. Then come back and ask if you still need help.

(or emails, for that matter):

Do not discuss sexual activates at all, and do not discuss donations.

Know what the gal wants for screening information by reading her site and be prepared to give her that information.

Also, tell her where you found her number or email.

Suggest a specific location, date, and time as well as duration so that the providers knows you are not just wasting her time.

These are the basics of a call/email.