Newbie - FAQ

Tipping with discretion?
SHN3934 5 Reviews 1080 reads
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1 / 9

Let's say that a provider and I have a great time (as far as I can tell) and that I want to say thank-you with a gratuity/tip.  Many providers even have wish-lists for such on their web sites.  My question is how this is best presented, though.

When the time is concluding do I hand over the tip and say thank you, or need to be more discrete like with the donation at the beginning?

What is preferred by providers?

grahamlee 16 Reviews 648 reads
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2 / 9

I don't know what they prefer, but I always place the tip on the counter or bed while announcing "here's a tip."  I've had no complaints so far, just thank you's.

souls_harbor 565 reads
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3 / 9

Depends on what you want to hear.  I usually discretely place the tip on or near the donation envelope as I slip out the door.  There's nothing wrong with tipping to get praised for it, it's your money, after all.  So I am not judging.  But I prefer to let them think what they will in private without requiring them to kiss my ring in gratitude

mrfisher 112 Reviews 536 reads
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4 / 9

As you separate, run your hand down her arm and transfer the money to her palm.

You'll see a big smile on her face.  Say nothing but a parting sweet mot.

harborview 10 Reviews 505 reads
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5 / 9

and I've also palmed it to her.  
Once i had honestly left my dnationin my coat which I'd left in my car...  she declined my offer to get it immediately...  perhaps because I did offer & she is a Fav...  but i was her last appt of the day, we exited together.  I put on my coat before turning to kiss her goodbye, we clasped hands & a quick kiss...   it went perfectly.

mrfisher 112 Reviews 479 reads
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6 / 9

as per the instructions on her website, in fact.

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Ten minutes after the session ended and I'm driving home, she calls to ask where the donation was.

I told her, and she said, Damn, I already checked out.  She had to turn around and get back in the room.  Fortunately, it was still there.

Now I put it down on her laptop computer.  That seems to work much better

harborview 10 Reviews 365 reads
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7 / 9

Posted By: mrfisher
as per the instructions on her website, in fact.  
   
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 Ten minutes after the session ended and I'm driving home, she calls to ask where the donation was.  
   
 I told her, and she said, Damn, I already checked out.  She had to turn around and get back in the room.  Fortunately, it was still there.  
   
 Now I put it down on her laptop computer.  That seems to work much better.
 

Good point, Fish!

grahamlee 16 Reviews 384 reads
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8 / 9

That's why I always make sure she's looking when I drop the envelope.

MarieSimone See my TER Reviews 487 reads
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9 / 9

She left BEFORE she found the envelope... Lol.

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