So I'm really only familiar with massage parlors, where "tipping" is essentially the real fee. When providers have stated fees for specific services, is there any expected tip, or is what I paid all inclusive?

Don't feel OBLIGATED to tip. Some providers make more than my attorney(whom i don't tip). Maybe thats why i'm always in hot water lol

Tip if the moment strikes you; or she does

Often asked question. There is a search feature for the boards. You should try and use it.  It's at the top of the page, look for "search" click on it. You can search by subject or author.  Expand the "days" feature from 30 to whatever you feel like. I usually go 90 or more.  BTW, I never tip, but I will bring a gift if the provider has gift page on her web site.  Nothing expensive, but it's a nice ice breaker