Just wondering what the average tip is? Are tips expected? The last thing I want to do is offend a provider with a tip that she thinks is too small. I usually tip at least 20 even if I know I wont be back. If I know I want to come back, I will give about 50. Is this necessary. I would think any tip would be appreciated, but I have left thinking that I pissed her off. I have only seen about 15 providers in my life. I used to gambe, but I think I have found a much better hobby.(i quit gambling a year ago) Thanks for your thoughts!

I'm far from an expert -- I think the folks who would receive the tips would know better than I! But here are my thoughts nevertheless for what they are worth ...

In general, for other services, you tip employees but not proprietors. Translated to the hobby, you would tip folks who are working for a service, but not folks who are independent. When I do hourly consulting for someone, I do not expect a tip.

In my neighborhood (Boston), fine ladies usually charge $300+/hr. for their time. That's right up there with the best-paid doctors and lawyers. These are *professionals*. When is the last time you tipped your doctor or lawyer?

That having been said, even with an independent I have provided either a small (10%-15%) tip OR a gift if I'm aware of things that are desired. I'm more inclined toward gift-giving.

appreciated.

The amount is a personal.

If you use the search function at the top of this board, going 90 or days will give pages of posts on tipping.

Personally I find women much more fun than gambling.

Good luck

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But here are the bottom lines:

No escort will ever state that tipping is necessary, but all will always state that they are very welcome.

So does it matter?  No one will ever really know.

Also, the hobbyist camp splits up into two groups:  Those that tip, and those who never do.  They will never ever agree.

I hope that clears up the picture for you.

(By the way, I usually tip, unless it's a overnight or multiple day visit.)

I don't have an answer, sorry, but actually a related question.  I am fairly new to this, so I haven't really given any tips, didn't know they were even expected.  Then I went to a massage parlor where H was 60 and hh was 40.  That went to the older lady at the door.  I figured the girl in the room was probably due a tip.  But I had no idea how much.  Had a back rub and a quick handjob.  I gave $40.  High, low, just right?  I have no idea.  What to others think?

Sounds about right.  I've been offered a HJ at AMPs for that price.

you're already handling it right. The amounts that you stated are about average, for the guys who do tip. If you find the lady's services to be exceptional, by all means, show her your appreciation. Leave her a tip, and book another appointment. On the next appointment, she'll most likely show you her appreciation.

Depends on where you're from. Some places are little higher. While I do tend to tip at these places. I also tend to give higher tips to those that do a great massage on my body. As, I know I will return depending on the circumstances.

I get tips sometimes, typically between 20-40 extra dollars. And because my rates are fair, I feel good about accepting any/all tips offered. Last week I got a good bottle of champagne from a client, and was really excited! But just leaving a donation is enough, especially if we have great chemistry and you plan to see me again(!)

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