Hello Everyone....I have a question...this can be answered by providers, but Id really like to hear from the hobbyists, too....when you say that you give a sensual massage...not (u know what) why is it that you get people who are looking for more than that when there are ads specifically for that. I give a very sensual massage, but am not comfortable with actual (u know...) and sometimes it's hard to wonder if someone will give you a bad review, just because you don't...when you never advertised that you do. I care so much about my guests, but don't want to feel like if I do not give in to that, then the beauty of my sessions will not be appreciated.

with a HE, and that's what he gets, why would he expect more?  Or why would he give a bad review?  Unless the service was not up to par, he knows what he will get, and should act accordingly.  If he wants more, he should go to a FS provider, not one that only offers sensual massage.

If all you offer is sensual massage with a HE, don't compromise your standards.  If you provider what you advertise that you offer, you should be OK.

Swi

I agree, but that is not at all the case in all cases. It is HE and VERY erotic. However, that is it. I do not advertise or make any type of promise to anything else. I will post my ad later, just wanted to get a little feedback before I do. I have been doing massage for awhile, but never posted to get reviews or anything, so I am both excited and nervous...hope to see some of you soon.
xoxo
thanks

I have seen massage providers get good reviews here many times. However, you cannot receive a rating of 8, 9, or 10 based on what you provide and the guidelines here at TER.

Wish I knew where you were located-sounds like you give a good one!

ooohhhhhh...ok...so its probably not a good idea to post here if i dont want to be potentially poorly reviewd? i will go read the guidelines, that will prob help out a bit, eh?...lol

and repeat the message when you speak or email just so that there is no doubt about it.

It is a shame when a guy tries to step over your boundaries and then retaliates because you stick to your guns.

I agree that a great massage and HE is a wonderful experience.

Well it depends on whether you think a 7 is a bad review. If you are doing massages, then that isn't a bad review.

Some of us (like me) don't really look at the ratings because I'm more interested in whether you are going to rip me off or not. I look at the narratives

Your going to get the predators and boundary pushers.  Hell there are some who just can't seem to breathe without pushing a boundary.  That is their thrill.   Avoid

There are some who will threaten you with reviews and try to force you into a discount.  Avoid, Avoid, Avoid.

One popular abbrev is "No FS" for "No full service" and people should know what that means.  

There is the unfortunate ambiguity that comes from those who ADVERTISE "No FS" but who do accept an extra tip for more and it shows up in their reviews. That creates the impression that "No" does not mean "No."  

However, there are also many "No FS" places that are just that and it also shows up the reviews and should, ultimately, inform visitors that they will be getting body rub only and "No FS!!!"  

Which reminds me ... in some states (New York), you must be a licensed massage therapist to advertise and offer "massage".  The way around that is to advertise "body rub".  No license needed  

Illegal massage (w/o a license) is a much easier bust (arrest) and conviction ("her AD said massage; no license") than trying to arrest and convict on other charges ("he said, she said").  

And don't worry about 7s (max for body rub). The written part of the reviews will tell the tale

Wow...ok. Thanks for this info peeps. I didn't know the highest you can get as a 7, for body rub. that explains a lot for me. I haven't gotten an opportunity to read the guidelines, yet...sorry. Well, in that case I will be placing ad this weekend and not only looking forward to getting a "7", but more than anything I would just like to leave a beautiful and sweet impression on those of you, whom I hope to be lucky enough to meet.
Until then...ttfn...!

Some jurisdictions are wise to body rubs and are rewriting the massage laws to include them.  Also, in private spaces you can be cited for fore codes, locked doors, unmarked fore exits & no business license...  without proving any inappropriate contact.  It depends on local codes, ordinances & attitude of the city or town.  In short you must screen just as well as if you are FS provider.

That answered a lot for me. I have tried to read up and still in the process of doing so, but the rating comment was definitely informative for me. Thanks!

For me, if someone advertises FBSM I expect it to be somewhat sensual and I expect an L1/HE.   By sensual I mean some whispering or maybe light kiss, teasing the balls.   For a FBSM to end with either a suggestion of me finishing myself, or leaving with a raging boner, I will be disappointed.

Now, if the girls ad says FBSM but is littered with phrases like "nothing illegal"  "nothing sexual" or stuff like that, I will just pass them up.

I am not clear on what you do or do not offer.   If you do not offer any type of finish, you would be best off including in your ads "massage only" "strictly professional" and "no happy ending"    Be clear.  I would never give a bad review to someone who was so clear.

If your ads are not clear, or imply a sensual HE then you do not deliver, maybe time to change your ad.