You can't write a review on a no-show.  You can post about it on your local board but most of the time this will cause more problems than it's worth.

Wondered best way to post a review on a provider who gives you all the information and when you get to location she doesn't respond to text/email/phone etc. First time this has happened to me and she
later answered text with just a symbol no words...really pissed me off since I treat providers with the greatest respect. Should I post review with a 1/1 or 0/0 ?

Try to settle it with the provider privately... Shit happens...

Was this very recent? Today? Yesterday? Give her some time and maybe she will make it right with you (enhanced perfromance, discount, extra time). Outing her is fraught with problems. She can deny it, her WK will come rushing to her defense, she has your personal info, etc....Its happened to me more times than I care to remember. It sucks bro. But you may want to let it go.

And TER refused to post it. They said for a review to be posted, you must have met the person.

Dont waste your time writing it.

I had been looking forward to it & wasted a rare opportunity (to go off the grid as it were).  She is well reviewed & I still her getting reviews nearby to my location.  But I will never risk another opportunity on her.  Not even if it was FREE.
So gals don't book appointments, work on the first to arrive (is a sure thing) and turns off her phone until she's available again.  They won't tell you this, but if they've left clients waiting...  it shows poor scheduling.  I have to travel a distance, need to work off an appointment time.  I won't book with any provider who doesn't schedule well.  It's what I have to do.  

Unfortnately you can not review nor is there a tally of the one's she's left waiting.  

BTW, sitting in a car outside, looking conspicious is not my thing.  I'll withdraw to the coffee shop on the corner...   for a few minutes.  I'll try again, if not I'm gone!

This has happened to me twice, but it worked out okay later with one of the providers.

Once when it happened I left a voice mail where I'm sure I sounded angry. The provider left a short email later that day saying she had expected more from me. I don't know if she thought that I had not shown up, or if she had gotten my voice mail and was turned off that I sounded angry. Either way, she never explained why she had not answered her phone. So I won't contact her again.

Another time it happened and I remained more calm about it. I again left a voice mail. About two days later, I got an email from the provider saying she had had a change of plans and had not made it to my city. I calmly replied that I understood that things come up, but that it would have been better if she had told me sooner. She was actually quite contrite, and so when she did come to town about a month later, I did go see her, and she really went above and beyond, trying to make up for breaking the previous appointment.

So in the future I'm going to assume that there's a real chance that the appointment won't happen for some reason, and try to stay calm about it. Normally, though, I would not be inclined to give a a provider a second chance.

I wish we did have a way of knowing how reliable a provider is. It's a lot of effort for me to meet someone, and I'd like to minimize the broken appointments.

I think if you remain calm and understanding, you will find a provider who will feel the need to make it up to you. The "make up" sex, if you will. There is a tremendous upside to giving her a second chance. She expects you to be pissed, send an angry email, leave a nasty v/m, etc but if she gets the "Hey, I am really worried about you. Contact me asap so I know you're ok. Whatever the reason you didnt show, dont sweat it. I still want to see you sometime soon" email she will have a totally different view of you and appreciate it greatly if she is any kind of decent person at all, and you can turn a real downer into an awesome time when you do meet up.

I hope it's OK that I post this.  I am not responding out of anger.  Just a gee-wiz response.

I am a fairly new provider (still working in getting reviews) and I deal with no shows all the time.  Men make appointments and think nothing of not showing.  I have at least 3-4 per week.  This is my livelihood at the moment.  When you make an appointment and not show up, and I have turned down other work for this, it's frustrating at best.  It may be just a fun time to you and no big deal if you decide to cancel, but it's lost time and wages to us.  

I will never return to a certain city because in two days I had TWELVE no shows.  I only see 2-3 clients per day and only work 3-4 days per week.  I had to book 16 appointments to get those 4 appointments and had to stay awake for many hours than I ever intended.  That's just sad and wrong.  It was my first visit there and my last.

Now that being said, I have never been a no-show myself, but I have canceled appointments WITH notice.  The client still gets upset.  Please remember that we are leading double lives also (at least those of us who are clean and have families do) and sometimes real life gets in the way.  Believe me (and I know I can only speak for myself), we are not no-showing or canceling out of irresponsibility.  I need the cash, flat out, hands down.  I'm going to show up if at all possible.  On those occasions I've had to reschedule, I do my utter best to make you want to forgive me.  Repeat business is where it's at.

I had an appointment and was on the interstate, half way there...  when a sudden & unexpected weather event stopped traffic.  I tried (very horny toad) to keep going but it was not possible.  When I called her, I was in the high speed lane, stopped.  The breakdown lane was lined with cars pulled off.  
We cancelled.  I rebooked a few days later, I left more time, the weather cooperated & we had a great time.  I still see her when I'm in her area.  
NCNS =  NO CALL, NO SHOW
I never heard back from the gal I posted about previously.  A simple "I had to change plans, sorry" would have gone a long way.   It would have given me a chance to book with someone else (possibly).

First of all Dawn, it is certainly ok that you post whatever you want. But you have to remember, this is a guys based site so we share info from a guys perspective. We cant complain about us ns on providers becuase it doenst affect hobbyists. That doesnt mean its right, it just our perspective is that we are the customer, so to speak, but you should ALWAYS be treated with respect and getting ns is direspectful from those guys, for the most part. (Some are unavoidable, as they are on the ladies side too.) If you had 12 ns in 2 days, I wonder if you are properly screening or seeing lower end guys that may come with the turf. Please dont take that the wrong way. Its just that the number of ns you state seems staggeringly high to me from my experiences and the ladies I talk to. And I fully believe you as well. But where I take issue with you is when you use the word "we". You used it several times, speaking of providers. Some ladies do ns out of irresponsibility. Some have been out to late the night before and missed my am appt. One blew me off for a better paying client. ( I pm'd the guy who wrote a review and he told me the day/time he met with her and how long.) Anyway, thanks for yout thoughts and best to you. Personally, I always like when providers post for not enough women's voices are heard. This board is tame but be forwarned, the gen. board can get nasty at times! lol. Take care.

Thanks all..Sounds like letting it go is best and I will. Hope she is better to others

It was 12 in that one city and I had decided while there it was just not a conducive city to work in.  There were very few ads there, and that did red flag me before I even made my decision to stop.  But I was passing through and figured what the heck.  Never again.  Driving two more hours down the road would have made a world of difference.

I was careful to state that I realize I can only speak for myself and that I am one of the clean (as in no drug addictions to pay for) girls.  Not at anytime do I pretend to represent the world of escorts.  So please don't take offense at little ol' me.  I only know what goes on in my world.  

My NSs are getting fewer now that I'm getting a little bit of exposure on sites such as this.  Unfortunately we cannot start out with reviews in hand.  

Thank you for being so nice.  It will take a lot more a cyber-room full of collective men and their opinions to scare me away.  

You have posted thoughfully.  As a reliable lady & when you have a few reviews to can point to, you should do better.  There is a lot to be said for mature women who can be counted on.  If you are scruplious in your dealings as you have presented, you will do well.  
Best Wishes, HV