I am wanting to have my first extended visit with a lady but I don't know how to go about approaching it.

When I say extended I mean more than an hour. In My case I am looking at maybe 3-4hrs, depending on what her rate turns out to be. I've only usually done 1hr and once in a blue moon 2.
But I really enjoyed my last time with this provider and I want to get to know her better.

Anyway, How do I approach asking for more than one hour?
I also want to experience a full GFE, Which she does provide but I want it to be like an actual date like with dinner, maybe a walk on the beach or near the water, etc. Something nice....
Should I tell her my intentions and what I want beforehand?

If I do that won't it kill the feeling of what I want? Which is the feeling like I'm on an actual "date" .....

I'm confused...

Just ask them for that.

Usually the deal is to have an hour play time, then go to dinner for a couple of hours, then return to her place for a nightcap.

I do it all the time, pocketbook allowing, and it is fun and like being on a date.

If she is a well reviewed provider, she'll make you feel special, like you want.

as the LG would say. BTW didn't you just ask this question on the GD board. Look on that board for the answers.

CREATING A FANTASY.

Call. Talk to her. If that's going to kill the fantasy for you then this is the wrong place for you.

Generally speaking providers don't like surprises that involve extending time or going outside of the room.  If you want dinner and a walk on the beach you need to tell her that you want dinner and a walk on the beach.  Get your head out of the notion that this is more than a paid date.  It's not.

After a short visit to make sure there's a good connection, a long visit - 4, 8, 12 or more hours - is my usual MO with companions.  I don't have the opportunity to do it often but I find it worthwhile for me.

MrFisher is correct, and it has been my experience that providers list in some way rates for longer visits on their websites.  If the time period isn't listed on her site, then see if you can use the other options posted to determine the rate for the time period you have in mind (if you do this, remember that you'll need to confirm it with her so you're not either over- or under-estimating the actual fee).

It's with someone you have previously seen, so feel free to ask her.  You're known to her and she may be more comfortable discussing issues like rates.

Good luck!

"Do you have a weekend night available?"
"I was thinking about a dinner-date. Somewhere nice, but relaxed. Have a leasurely dinner, some wine, nice conversation. Maybe take a walk after? The go back to your place for an hour and half desert?"
"Are you interested?"
"Do you have a dinner date package?"


Just ask straight forward and naturally. You don't have to give any other info. In fact, DONT! Just let it unfold naturally. Ladies do this all the time. Many ay it's their favorite type of session.



HalfHour

So many wait until they're asked to even think about what their rates for longer dates would be.

Not having a listed rate for such things makes clients question if you're even interested in longer dates. I mean, that's fine if you're only wanting to offer hourly/shorter dates, but if you WANT to offer longer dates *make it easier for clients to ask for them*.