Many have a direct email posted on their site or in their review page. You can contact them that way with all the information they request (as much as you can do anyway) and even add on a paragraph or two explaining who you are and your situation.

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Touring agencies tend to be a little more accommodating. Miami Companions has Michelle Avanti visiting San Jose next week. Check the LA board for announcements of visiting ladies.

I have not checked out Avanti, but the touring agencies tend to have good or better ladies. It is a way to start building your resume towards a "high end provider", whatever that means to you.

The references of Agencies in general is not as strong as that from a lady. Miami Companions is RS2K, so that would help. However, RS2K is not big in SO CA. You might want to see if they are Date-check or P411.

Another possibility is to work your way up to the "high end" ladies. See a more reasonably priced lady that is popular and is more accommodating in the screening process. You may not get a 9/9 (looks/performance), but a 6/9 is lots of fun. It also helps you get comfortable with the process, so when you do see the 9/10 lady, you get more bang for the buck.

"Popular" is key. You want someone that will give a reference, as well as one that is accepted by the other ladies. If she is well known, then the other ladies will be more comfortable with the reference.

Another option is to check the LA and Meet & Greet boards. See if there are any holiday parties where you can go and meet the ladies. Many times you need a reference to get an invitation. But, it never hurts to ask.