Newbie - FAQ
it's really only a "fat wallet".
But maybe if he's a nice guy...nah, only if he has his ATM pin number readily available 
I would believe the number ONE "most important thing is"
That the envelope is filled properly.
After that, it is what it is
correct. Of the ladies I've gotten to know well enough that they talk about biz at all to me, other than really bad hygiene, the only thing I've ever heard them talk about that just sets them off is getting shorted on the donation.
On the other hand, if you are a big tipper, that seems to REALLY turn them on too!!! At least it certainly seems to make them eager to want to see you again.
Good hygiene and right amount in the envelope and you are all ACES!!
I agree...I tend to have a much better time if the chemistry is there..The envelope is a given.. but once the envelope is taken care of, there is so much more to him...I enjoy humor and a great personality.. If he is relaxed and easy going, makes for a great time all around. I am lucky 95% of the gentlemen I have met have had great personalities. You tend to remember them more, least I do.
I am sure I am not the only one who feels this way ..
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Personality, humor and how he treats me. If someone comes in acting like a jacka**, it doesn't matter how "good" he is in bed, it's not a turn-on. Women are wired differently, & if you're not attracted to that person's personality, how good he is, or how he looks does not matter.
Making sure you have the correct donation is only half the battle.... the saying "Nice guys finish last" does not apply in this setting, & the more of a gentlemen you are, the more likely you are to have a better connection with the lady
honestly personality and a sense of humor melts my heart! i dislike pushy, man handling kinda guys - i rather have a laid back chill "420" kind of vibe. there's nothing like laughing at some jokes during a good f%$*(! ya know? 