And if you simply want to kiss her (you might want to read her reviews and make sure that whatever it is that you are looking for, she does offer) and clap your hands, then go for it. You might want to discuss after dropping the donation off just what you want to do. In almost all cases she will be more than accomodating to your requests (assuming that your OP is stating the type of activities that you are seeking).
Just be courteous and clean and you should have a wonderful time. And if you simply want it ALL about you, there is no problem there whatsoever. This isn't "bad form", offensive or selfish. This is P4P and you are the one paying...so enjoy!
Maybe that's the wrong question. Basically, I've been checking out some providers on here and I'm interested in some of what they offer -- mutual touching, DFK, possibly bbbj -- but prefer to stop short of full service. Obviously those providers who are listed as "massage only" offer a very specific service that doesn't include these things, but it also seems like all the reviews for escorts go all the way to FS in various positions, which isn't what I'm after.
Seems like a provider with a good attitude won't care, since the donation is the donation no matter what. But is there anything wrong or "bad form" about that? It's important to me to be able to be specific about the kind of experience I want. I just would hate to come across as offensive or selfish in some way, but that's probably silly to worry about since this is what these providers do...
Thanks - looking forward to hearing if anyone has specific experience with this situation.
i have plenty of sessions where i just do oral stuff , no problem just tell the lady what you want she has good reviews she will accommodate , i have never gotten a discount for this type of session but its your show they will do what you ask .
And if you simply want to kiss her (you might want to read her reviews and make sure that whatever it is that you are looking for, she does offer) and clap your hands, then go for it. You might want to discuss after dropping the donation off just what you want to do. In almost all cases she will be more than accomodating to your requests (assuming that your OP is stating the type of activities that you are seeking).
Just be courteous and clean and you should have a wonderful time. And if you simply want it ALL about you, there is no problem there whatsoever. This isn't "bad form", offensive or selfish. This is P4P and you are the one paying...so enjoy!
You don't go to a restaurant and order everything on the menu. You order what you like. Samething with escorts. You need to be a vip to see what's on the menu, then read the juicy details to make sure she offers what you like. Remember everything about the hobby is pretty much a ymmv situation. Once the donation has been taken care of, and you've both gotten comfortable you can discuss what you like. I'm a pig and like everything on the menu, so usually I ask the lady if she has any rules. Once she tells me her rules, it'son to the appitizers, then the entree, and finally desserts. Bon Appitet !
I know for sure with one provider and suspect many have clients who do not want FS. It is not as unusual as you may think, the problem occurs if you expect a discount for the lack of FS. The reason most of the reviews mention FS is that is what most of the guys want, but it is not a requirement. Just that if I wanted only talk and a HJ then I would save money and see a massage girl twice for what one full service lady would cost me.
I have seen 6 full service providers and have never had full service. Just massages, HJ, CBJ and Russian. No problem at all with the exception of 2 who only did BBBJ because they did not like the latex taste. No problem with me, the Russian was just as good for me with them.
There's one gent that I see regularly when I tour who is pretty much of the same mind as you. Him and I have a wonderful time together but stop short of FS because that's the experience he wants. I'm happy to oblige and have had very hott dates with him. I can't speak for all ladies, but I don't think many would mind. He just made mention while we were talking during our first date about his comfort zones and it was really nice to know what kind of date would make him happiest.
We all have our boundaries that we need to respect- both men and women alike. It's no different than a lady saying she doesn't offer x,y,z.
If you read a lot of reviews, you will see numerous guys who do not do FS with the provider. Many of them have medical issues which make penetration impossible for them. Some just prefer to do the preliminary stuff, like the kissing, daty, bj, etc....
As others have already stated, it's your dime, and you only have to do what you are comfortable with. I don't think the provider will be offended if you do not want to do fs with her. A provider friend of mine once told me that many of her clients do not do fs with her, more than I expected, and she has a pretty full menu of services.
If you don't want FS there's another option. Many of the asian and latina girls on CL and BP who work out of their homes and also at AMPs and LMPs charge an upfront (massage) fee of $40 to $60, then offer a la carte services...typically $40 for HJ to $100 for FS. Sometimes the $40 isn't enough to get her clothes off, but you can negotiate for that. For example, I saw a beautiful latina girl last week at a new LMP who was on her period so I opted for a BJ and HJ plus cuddling and kissing her tits--for $60 upfront + $50 tip and i left very happy. The only downside is that DFK is usually not on the menu.
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