Do you like it when a gent asks you what you like?  I know the short answer:  Some will say yes and some will say they prefer the gent focus on himself and it doesn't matter.  I'm more curious as to the percentages to be honest.  I know we had one poster who said it was really important that he get the provider off and he spent dang near the whole time going crazy on her.....and unfortunately, she ended up declining when he asked to see her again.  Some surmised that it may have made her uncomfortable with him putting all the attention on her (although it could have been a lot of different things).

Anyway, I'm one who likes to please.  But I'm not nearly naive enough to think we're talking auto-orgasm for the gal AT ALL.  And for 300, I don't mind being selfish and focusing on me!  But I guess I'd rather tell a gal up front, "I'm just fine if you don't have an orgasm....but I want to treat you in ways that you find pleasurable."  Is that a good way to go about it or is it probably just best to ask what she likes and let her do her thing?  

I guess my attitude is:  Heck, I know I'm going to have a good time....why shouldn't she at least enjoy herself some?

Hobbyists:  Certainly chime in with your experiences with this subject matter as well.  

And I've seen many guys babble how they want to "take turns" as to not be selfish.  That's just total bullshit my friend.

If all you want is to DATY for an hour or two...your dime...go for it.

Or if all you want is a BBBJCIMNQNS for the entire session...it's YOUR session.

I charge a shit load of money for an hour of my consulting time...and honestly if the client only wants to babble about his/her issues, that's what they pay me for.  Some may ask how's my life going...but it's not a necessity.

Do what YOU want to do.

And for the john that told the story of the hooker rebuffing him due to his DATY and shit....trust me, much more to that story than he led on.  I have YET to find a hooker that wouldn't be OK for a john to DATY the entire time...or she gives him a BBBJ the entire time..and so on.

It's just sex...don't make it out to be anything more than that  

If you have done your homework and read her reviews, you will see what see likes, and many times what she doesnt like. If you see a pattern of guys spending a lengthy amount of time on daty, for example, and the woman really enjoying it, safe bet you can proly venture there for awhile too!

Yup, I'm pretty familiar that you have pretty strong views re. this.  But I'll throw out an example.  LR says she could BBBJ in her sleep for an hour (I use her because she is brutally honest).  That's all well and good.  But she's also said that sometime she gets off or at least enjoys some other things.  Some GUYS get some enjoyment from that.  That's all I'm saying.  

When a guy asks me flat out "what do you like" I feel like saying painting and freaking skydiving. I mean, I am into the basic gfe and sometimes pse, so I guess I "like" whatever you're paying for lol. No secret I like oral more than sex, but that does not mean I won't adjust to what YOU like. Yes, you are free to spend 30 min. going down on me too, because I usually can get at least one orgasm if you take your time with me.

There are subtle signs if you're doing something right, but just relax...it is your time. Guys who put too much focus on wanting the provider to get off, are not viewed as good clients, but those who pressure us. WANTING or caring about us having a good time is one thing, but don't be that guy who is like, "Did you cum baby, did you cum!"

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It's YOUR session...your bucks...your interests.

And if you feel like going down on her..do it.  If you don't...don't.

Once you get more experiences with the hookers you'll see that there really aren't any expectations a hooker has.  Now as an example...the dude who wanted to DATY forever...I will bet you that if we asked the hooker how she felt about it, she wasn't thrilled with it.  FWIW most johns have no clue how to DATY a woman.  And if you ask the gals...they'll confirm this for you.

So if you/I want to DATY for the hour, and we are horrible at it...trust me, she won't be seeing you/I again  LOL   But the first session she won't know any better...so all will be fine.  And many will tell the johnnie boy that she can't take anymore with the multiple O's she's had...which is code for "stop...you are hurting me".

So take it for what's it worth.  Most gals will do whatever YOU want to do.  And if you're OK at it...even better  LOL

If getting a hooker "off" is a thing you want to do...go for it.  But I would suggest that you tell her in advance that really turns you on.  The gals know how to make it appear very real for the john.  Just communicate what you are looking for...it's easy when you do that.