Question about bringing beverages when meeting someone for the first time.  Obviously, asking about the lady's drink of choice is a good idea.  The question is about the execution - how do you bring it up to an incall without being too obvious about it?  Also, do you bring shot glasses, wine glasses, cups, etc?  Use the ones the lady has in her incall?

I would take a lady's answer over mine any day, but in the meantime. . . I would not take anything to a first visit unless requested by the lady. I have a feeling that many would look suspiciously at even the most tightly sealed beverage container offered by a stranger.

As you mentioned, I will ask if I could bring something for us to enjoy together.  I often carry a gym bag or laptop bag; looks like I'm coming back from the gym or work. I normally bring just the bottle, but don't forget the cork screw!

I did so for my very first date and it was greatly appreciated, especially since it was white wine and I brought it chilled.  She said, "Nobody ever did that for me before."  I had checked her listing on P411 and it included the type of wine she prefers.  Most web sites have such info, too.  Bear in mind that I'm not a huge tipper (don't believe in it) and I don't buy the most expensive gifts ladies list on their wish lists.  But a decent wine can be had for $15, which ain't much to get things moving in the right direction.

Typically I would think that the host would provide the glasses. It's much like bringing a dessert or beverage to a dinner party or get together. One doesn't worry about bringing silverware, plates etc.

You could always place the beverage in a gift bag. It's inconspicuous and would also serve to present the drink as gift (of which it was intended, right?)

As far as wine, unless it's an outcall lesson with someone in which I'm comfortable (safety precaution), I'm partial to providing it myself. That way, it can be opened and poured into glasses well ahead of time. I can't enjoy a good wine without giving it proper time to breathe.

Now, they do sell the small instant aerators, although I have never used one and am not sure how well they work. I know that this may be a bit off topic, but if you are going to offer to bring wine to share, it's best that the wine can be well appreciated.

I hope this helps

beverage she requests.  Keep the bottle sealed until the lady arrives.  

For multi-hr. incall dates, I will usually bring a bottle of wine if I know the lady will share the beverage with me.  Otherwise, I will stay with water.

When a guy texts me if he should bring champagne or another drink. I usually say yes (even though I have my own stock) it's always nice to mix it up with what he brings. Any established lady will know to stock her apartment/incall with glasses so I wouldn't worry.

Usually not on a first date, but when booking a second date, I might ask if she enjoys wine, and if so, I'll offer to bring a bottle. If she is, always open and pour it in front of her- makes her more at ease and she won't think you're trying to Roofie her...

" look suspiciously at even the most tightly sealed beverage container offered by a stranger." ... You gotta be kidding. Maybe you've been watching too many movies.

First Visit...

If she offers you some water you say:

"Well, thank you! Actually, I brought some [wine, or whatever] in case we decided to have a drink."

She will either say ok, or no and leave it at that.

If she doesn't offer water you might say:

"It's really nice to finally meet you in person. I brought [...]. Would you care to have a drink with me."

She will either say ok, or ...

Have you ever gotten to know any providers? I mean actually KNOW them? These ladies are much stronger and adept at handling men and these situations than you give them credit for.



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I always call that my "Gentleman's kit". Would never go to play with out it.


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Although I no longer like to combine drinking and sex like when I was a young degenerate, I have one fave who told me she loosens up nicely with a few shots. Next time, I brought a selection of minis to her room with two shot glasses. They easily fit into the laptop bag I carry for condoms, lubes and sundries (but no laptop).

I had fun, and it even loosened her jaw muscles. Thanks to somebody on the Legal Corner, I think, who suggested a laptop bag as a good ruse for passing through hotel lobbies unobtrusively. It holds a lot of stuff that could come in handy.

First, second, ninth visit to the same provider (or more, of course) I always bring something with me.  I always bring something I like to drink, if she chooses not to participate, then whatever is left I discard. (It is illegal, at least where I live anyway, to have an open alcoholic beverage in the car while driving.)

I do bring cups with me.  I prefer water goblets since you do not have to get up and pour another drink if you want another.  Also, the cups provided in hotels are not exactly conducive to a romantic get away, I don't care how many flowers you wrap them in!

Lastly, as you get to know the girl better, you will get a taste for what she likes and if you like it too. (Why bring a beverage you don't like?  It's your social get together.)