So if you do some checking on back threads, you'll find a lot of advice.

The executive summary comes down to two things:

1.  Join a screening service like Room Service or P411 or,

2.  Find newbie friendly providers.

or both!

Hello,

I'm new to this hobby and I would like to know what would be the best way to get in the good graces with some of the lovely ladies on this site.  I haven't seen enough to gain references and i have no idea how to get someone to see me without said references. Any help you can provide would be great.

If you are in LA, give me a call and we can chat.

Madison