Have not been hobbying long. Had an appointment all set up in advance and confirmed. When I made it to the incall area, texted but no response. Checked my email and saw an email telling me that she saw another client as outcall and was having trouble getting back in time and if I could wait an hour.  

While the delay was enough to cancel, what got me was the information that it was due to another client and she was rushing back to our appointment. Somehow made me feel second fiddle and kind of killed the experience especially when never responding to my texts.  

Anyone else have this happen and did you ever end up seeing that person later? You never see these in the reviews so not sure if this happens all the time and I need to reset my expectations. Thoughts?

comes to mind, how well did you research this provider? Did you read reviews? Has this type of behavior happened before?

I would move on and find someone else for your next date.

ALWAYS have a client before me unless I'm booking at 10:00a.  Nevertheless, if she runs overtime with another client and makes me wait, I won't see her again.  There are many providers out there that understand that respecting a schedule is mutual, so no need to let yourself be abused.

I actually had this happen for the first time in a while (post 411 and TER) with a very highly rated lady from Chicago.  Something similar happened when I was 30 min in route.  I am almost positive that what happened was that she agreed to extend with a guy after his session was supposed to be over.  A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush I guess.  Then she told me to schedule again so that she could make it up.  I did that and then we never connected.  Provider: Christina Valetta.  Pissed me off.

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I would always run across this exact situation.  Now that I have only 2 or 3 "hand picked" ATF's I don't experience it any more.  They are always on time or early.  Its just good business.  This girl you saw is not a good business persin with time management skills.  Doesn't make her a bad person or a bad lay, but she is definitely hurting her business.

...i would agree with you that it would be a major turn off to learn it was because of a previous client. I would probably have cancelled too.

At least she sent you an email and gave you an option to reschedule.

I'm glad she didn't answer your texts.  Nobody should answer texts while driving.

I am sure you would have felt much better if she had lied and said something about getting delayed in traffic after seeing her sick grandmother, but the reality is this type of thing happens all the time.

 
Yes, quite often the reason a provider can't answer the phone five minutes before your scheduled arrival time is because she still has a mouthful of her last client's dick in her mouth. The bad news is, this is most likely going to happen to you again some day. The good news is that the next several times this happens, most likely she will tell you the story about visiting her sick grandmother so she doesn't "kill the experience" for you.

 
Personally, I too prefer the "little white lie" but I prefer not to be stood up more. If I were in your situation, I would most likely move on to someone who cared more about my time, and the fact that she didn't take the energy to come up with a cover story to spare your feelings about WHY you were stood up factors into it as well. I guess it's better than a NCNS, but unless she is going to at least make an attempt to "make it up to you" by way of extra time, a small discount to prove she is at least a bit contrite, or at least "something" to make you feel appreciated again. I would simply call the next girl on my list if I were you.

Thanks all. I just wanted to make sure what I felt, my reaction to cancel instead of wait for an hour, and not looking back were not isolated and not improper. Thanks for all the great info. On to the next.