Hello everyone.  Have been trying to set up my first meeting.  Came upon someone in the reviews that looked good.  Only two reviews but one of the reviewers had many reviews.  Emailed the person.  She asked to send some personal information (name, phone number at company, name of company, age).  Did so as read on TER board that screening often happens and this did not seem out of the ordinary (for my small radar anyway).  Just got an email back from her saying that she will try to free up next weekend and that she has a friend who schedules, and HE (my capitalization) will call me and what is a good time to do so.  Now my suspicion is up.  She is Asian and one of the TER reviews said her English is not so good so that may be the reason for the scheduler.  But the emails responses I have gotten have pretty good English and the male scheduler thing is concerning.
What does everyone think?  I would really hate for a first meet to be an LE meet.  If you do think this is LE, since I have given some personal information already, what should I do now?
Thanks for any and all information you can share.
Be safe!

Don't mess with someone like this for your first appointment.  

She may or may not be legit, but why do this to yourself on the first attempt.  Just pick someone who has a solid full page of good reviews.  

This way you can go in knowing that you will have a good time and LE won't be involved.

I wouldn't worry about the information you already gave her.  Most likely she is not LE.  A lot of girls have Males that schedule there appts, but like I said why chance it when you are starting out.

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I have limited experience, but I have noticed that the few asian ladies I have dealt with have a male scheduler.  I talk to these guys on the phone, and they are the ones who answer the e-mails.

If you have VIP, you might try PM'ing the reviewers to check out the story.

When LE strikes they do it quickly. They don't schedule appointments days away as word would get out of what is going on among providers. I think you are safe on the LE thing but I also agree that it would be a better idea to look for a more established lady.

Thank you very much for the information so far.  It was very helpful and I truly appreciate it.  If anyone has more to add, please do post a reply as they really help (I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who has helped out upt to now).
All the best,
Kasha12

lady with a longer review history (at least 5 or 6) from established reviewers.  Better safe than sorry.

Probably not a set up by LE.  But for your first foray into the hobby, you should pick the near sure thing...a provider with multiple pages of reviews whose services fit your criteria, with reviews by established reviewers.  In order to minimize your risk, you should avoid AMP's...stick with reputable agencies or independents, which should not be hard to identify even as a newbie if you are doing your homework.  As for the situation you are encountering, if you are uncomfortable, walk away and move on.