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This hobby is way too superficial to take things too seriously!
2nd2nun 5 Reviews 7778 reads
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I am fairly new at this hobby and Love it,  I recently met a provider that I really enjoyed.  I met with her twice and she seemed to enjoy our time together also,even ask me during our 2nd appointment if this was the begining of a wonderful friendship.  I wanted to meet her a third time and when I called the booking agency, they said she was available and booked the appointment for me.  Several minutes later they called back and cancelled the appointment because the provider said she wasn't feeling well.  I waited a few days and booked another appointment with this provider and once again the agency called me and said the provider had to cancel because she had a relative coming to town even though the booking agency website showed the provider available.  On the first two visits I always showed up on time,clean,well dressed and treated the provider with the highest respect.  I never requested any service that was out of the ordinary or of a bizzare nature.  

I know women can be unpredictable but this takes the cake.  What should I do, try again?

Can.I.Lick.It 65 Reviews 4443 reads
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Smelly Smegma 5174 reads
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are WAY too many hot ladies that won't cause you headaches. Sometimes walking away is the best policy. In any case, don't let it "eat at you". As they say in rodeo, "if ya fall off the horse, get your ass back up and keep ridin' ". Good Luck!

little phil 37 Reviews 4230 reads
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Being new to the game, and seeing her twice in fairly rapid succession, her comment may have been more of a question of are you falling for her beyond the professional boundaries.  Most of us remember our first, or at least the first good experience.  If you still want to see her again, put some time and a couple other ladies between now and then.  It may ease her mind.

jazz32 24 Reviews 5096 reads
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Just because a lady's agency says she is available today, that doesn't mean that she is waiting by the phone, ready, willing and able to meet your call.  If she has nothing scheduled, she is free to do all of the normal things in her "real life" (picking up her kids at school, grocery shopping, meeting a regular client, etc).

Personally, I'd give her another chance, but this time with a few, or several, days advance notice.    Remember you a dealing with a real person, with a real life.  If she finds an excuse not to meet you, assume that she doesn't want to see you again, for whatever reason, and you should move on (BTW, have you prepaired plans B and C?).

2nd2nun 5 Reviews 5111 reads
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The reason I saw her twice in such rapid succesion is because we all know the second time is always better than the first, which was very true in my case.  i don't think her comment was a question of me going beyond the professional bounderies, at least not by the way it sounded.  The main reason I started this hobby was so I would not have to deal with the issues of an everday relationship (kind of burned out on the whole dating scene right now) but still reap the benefits.  I will definitely take your advice find a few other GFE providers and maybe call her in a few months.  Thanks for the input.

2nd2nun 5 Reviews 4566 reads
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Plan B and C is I have already started to search for other GFE providers and thanks for the advice.

Ridin323 6 Reviews 5142 reads
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From what i read it seems like maybe feelings were starting to develop from both sides and she just wanted to end things before anyone got emotionally hurt or evolved into something other than business related later on down the road.

2nd2nun 5 Reviews 5186 reads
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Thank You!!  I am kind of thinking the same thing, at least from her side.  Even though she is one hell of a GFE, I know better than to start a relationship other than business related with a provider.

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