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And before anything else I want to also say that there is NOTHING wrong with that. We all like different things, and that variety is a GOOD thing. :)

While some ladies will happily forego sleep, most will want several hours of uninterrupted sleep. Personally, no one wants to be around me when I am sleep deprived. ;) Regardless, this should be discussed ahead of time to avoid misunderstandings. Similarly, you'll also want to discuss meals (dinner, breakfast, both?), and any other non-private activities you'll want to do or not do. You can leave room for flexibility, certainly, but those are the three big things that definitely need to be known by both of you prior to meeting.

As you said, there are room safes or a safe at the front desk if you're really concerned about theft. But if you're going to be spending an extended period of time with someone, that level of worry is going to put a huge damper on your mood. I think an overnight or other extended date should be only with someone with whom you have at least a moderate level of trust and compatibility. If you haven't established that comfort level, you're probably not going to have a very good time anyway.

I'd caution against using a fake name for any date if she's specifically asked for your real name. If the lady finds out you've lied about who you are, you risk being blacklisted under both your real and fake name and all the other info you've given. The risk vs. reward is yours to evaluate on that, but I know I personally do not take at all kindly to being lied to. I screen with real world info for my safety, and if I feel you've compromised that, I get all kinds of cranky! If she doesn't ask for your real name, of course, then feel free to give any pseudonym you please. Everyone screens differently, and not everyone cares who you actually are as long as you have a history of behaving well.

And lastly, how comfortable are you with giving her a deposit ahead of time? These are very common with longer dates to help discourage either of you from cancelling last minute. You'll both have cleared your schedules for an entire evening and morning, and to have that time essentially wasted is not a good situation for either of you! Not everyone asks for one, but many do, so also be sure that's clarified (as well as any issues of refunds should either of you cancel) well before scheduling.

I travel overseas quite a bit and have seen my share of escorts in my hotel room for an hour or two.  I'm curious about overnights, however.  Not the cost, but the experience.  

(1) Do you "play" all night, or is sleep also a part of the experience?  If the latter, then I'm not sure I'm that interested in paying big $$ to have a girl sleep (literally) beside me.  I'll just stay with the two-hour outcalls.

(2) I'm worried about theft in an all-nighter, esp. if I fall asleep.  What's to prevent me from waking up with the girl and half my stuff gone.  (Yes, I know about in-room safes; I use them.  But, I can't fit everything valuable into them.)

(3) I've always used a fake name with my dates.  For an overnight, would I have to use my real name?  Do they check through the front desk?  If so, again, I'll stick with the two-hour sessions.

Thanks for your help.  Hope to hear from some more experienced at this.

og

1.  No you don't play all night generally, sleep is part of the deal.

2.  You would not want to do an all-nighter with a new provider.  She should be someone you have seen previously, preferably several times, so you are familiar with her.  If you don't feel you can trust her to be honest, then  she is not the one to spend the night with.

3.  The name thing depends on who gets the room.  If she has secured the room, then your name is not necessary.  She would have already registered before you arrive.  If you made the room reservation, then your name will be on the registration, but she really does not need to see it.

I have done 2 thus far, with the same provider, and had a wonderful time.  And yes, we did sleep.

Hope this helps.
Swim

You meet at around 8 PM and spend an hour playing, then have dinner from 9-11, then another hour before bed.

At around 7 AM you get some wake up call sex, and if there's time maybe a quick breakfast before your 12 hours is up.

Maybe you get a something at around 3 AM if you both are up then.  That's happened to me just once.

I like them very much.


Why settle for an overnight date, when you can experience the excitement of a 24 hour date with a lovely provider. Let me be your tour guide

4:00PM: You meet her downstairs at your hotel and are immediately taken aback by her beauty and style.  She is elegantly dressed and everyone in the lobby stares and can’t believe that she is with you. You exchange a great DFK and hug and tell each other how excited you are that you will be spending the next 24 hours in each others company!      

4:10PM: You invite her up to the room (where the donation has been placed ahead of time on the table) and out on the patio where you sip champagne, (don’t be cheap here), and engage in friendly get to know you banter. As you stare into each others eye you discover that you both enjoy Neil Simon comedies, can't understand why Pluto is now considered only a dwarf planet, argue over the merits of the Zachary Taylor Presidency, discover your mutual interest in American Idol, and debate whether gas prices on average will be over $4.50 a gallon by the end of 2011.

5:00PM: You are so excited at this point; you simply can’t take it any more. You put the champagne down just in time as she gets on her knees and blows you. Right there on the patio! Holy crap, what an evening this will be!!! Round one is complete, and a great prelude to a nice romantic dinner! While you wash up in the bathroom she quietly takes the envelope with her donation and you are none the wiser.

5:45PM: You arrive at the restaurant,(you are still smiling and can’t believe she actually swallowed!) where you will have some more time over drinks (You a Beefeater Martini on the Rocks, our provider a Cosmopolitan) to get to know each other. You then dine on a lovely meal of Caesar Salad (no anchovies of course), Fresh 3 pound Lobsters (can’t forget the succulent butter) flown in that morning from Maine, with a side baked potato. You enjoy only the finest wine. You have incredible fun feeding each other. There is more mutual touching as she continually laughs at your mundane and boring jokes (You don't care). Everyone in the restaraunt is staring and can't believe she is with you. All you can think about is getting laid...but of course you have theater tickets. Desert is a scrumptious assortment of cookies and pastries. Then comes the $600 check (Holy crap this meal was expensive...boy the sex better be great!)

7:30PM: You get in a taxi and drive to the theater, just in time to enjoy the 8:00PM performance. You can’t remember what the play is about as the two of you continue to touch each other quite sexually throughout the entire performance. Old Mrs. Smith, sitting behind you turns beat red as she hears the provider softly moan....and then she looks over at her 80 year old husband who is snoring and longs for the days when she too would get laid after an evening out.

10:30PM: The performance is finally over (you still have no idea what it was about) and you again get in a taxi and drive back to the hotel. Finally, the MAIN EVENT! You are about to get laid!!! Congrats.

10:45: The clothes are flying off as soon as you enter the room. You begin with a mutual shower, caressing and soaping each others body. She begins to blow you again, but you want to slow down the motor. You both get out of the shower and she proceeds to light candles around the room and plays music to set the mood. You lay back on the bed, and she kisses you all over. You grab her breasts and begin to flick her nipples until they are rock hard. She moans. She then works her magic and begins an incredible blow job. You return the favor and are soon in a hot 69. You can’t take much more and have to fuck her. Out comes the Cover and you proceed to have sex in multiple positions. Finally, you cum hard and she cums as well (or puts on a great show) You are both totally spent, yet incredibly fulfilled and satisfied.

11:45PM: Intermission. Time to get ready for round two (round three if you count the pre-dinner blow job) The recovery chatter flows effortlessly. She is finally understanding your passion towards the Zachary Taylor Presidency.

12:30AM: You have completed your recovery banter and she begins to get you ready for the main event. More of the same, touching, caressing, oral, and multiple position sex. It takes you much longer to cum this time, but our provider is a real trooper and takes care of you every step of the way. You finally cum all over her chest. She excuses herself to the bathroom and cleans up. She emerges after a while in beautiful lowcut lingerie. She smiles politely at your 1980's boxer shorts with a slight hole in the waistband.  

1:50AM. You are both exhausted and have finally decide to get some sleep. She falls asleep quickly (either because she is sexually drained or incredibly bored...I will give you the benefit of the doubt and assume its the former)

2:00AM: You are still beaming with joy but can't sleep. You flip on the TV and watch Sports Center...After all, you do have Albert Puljos on your fantasy baseball team.  

2:30AM: You take one more glance at your lady friend to make sure she is still there. You finally click off the TV and fall asleep.

9:00AM. You wake up and look over and see your provider is still sleeping. You pinch yourself to make sure you didn’t dream the events of the night before. You slowly caress her body, and she wakes up and smiles, and again thanks you for a wonderful evening and tells you how hot you made her (sure its a frickin act, but who cares!). You call room service, and order a delicious continental breakfast. They tell you 45 minutes...a perfect amount of time for another round!. You are all over like Grant taking Richmond. The sex was totally hot (at least from your perspective) Boy, nothing like getting laid first thing in the morning. You clean up just in time to hear the knock on the door.

10:00AM: You eat breakfast in your hotel room and again there is more touching, smiling, and joking around. She is still laughing at your mundane and boring jokes.

11:00AM: You get dressed in your swim attire and quickly head out to the beach. She doesn’t seem to care that the bathing suit you are wearing is some 50 pounds and 10 years ago. You enjoy some time together, soaking up the rays and splashing and frolicking in the water. People are staring. They can't believe she is with you.

12:45PM: You head back to the hotel room with what will prob. be your final fuck of your appointment. Now is the time to try any position you have left out. You enjoy her fake moans for the final time.  

1:45PM: You are totally spent and sexually charged. You and your lovely lady head out to enjoy lunch together. You dine on Tuna Tar-tar and delicious sushi. More champagne. This time you don’t care about the $600 lunch tab because the sex was awesome!!

3:15PM: You take a final stroll along the beach, holding hands, kissing and laughing (if I didn't know any better I'd say you were on a real civilian date) and promising that you will one day soon be in each others arms again. (only if you can afford it) You are acting like high school kids and having a great time.  

4:00PM. Your date has sadly come to an end. You walk her back to her car and like two long lost love birds you engage in more kissing, hugging and touching. People are staring intently, and still can’t believe she is with you. With a final goodbye, the car door closes and she is off. You stare for a few minutes, smile and now realize you have to go back to the mundane reality of your life.  

I hope this gameplan is helpful!

Bravo!, I salute you sir, excellent, fully descriptive review. I could almost picture my self in your position (no pun here).

Thanks.

Great narration! Excellent....LOL...

Love this! Ever thought about being a writer?

Very entertaining, but Zachary Taylor?

I have to call shenanigans, here.
No woman in her right mind would blow you in cocktail or formalwear without removing her dress first. No lady wants her cover blown (no pun intended) by a telltale stain on her Vera Wang.

We've all learned a little something from Lewinsky. ;)

We met at around 9 PM. Had sex until about 11. Watched a movie. Then more sex until about 4 AM. At that point, I just wanted a good, long sleep, so I left.

I had seen her before, so I had no concerns about safety. I would never consider a long appt. with anyone I did wonder about.

Her overnight rate was only about 3 times her hourly rate, so I got my money's worth. She said that most overnight clients slept, but that some just kept going all night. It's up to them.

shudaknownbetter1037 reads

as everyone needs some.  If you figure the package deal, the sleep time is at a much lesser rate or almost free...  but you have the benifit of some middle of the night action or wake up sex.
Absolutely, I'd never do an overnight withsomeone I'd not had a couple of single session meetings with.   I know some have and I hope they got aquainted by phone at least before hand...  but there is much more risk.
If either of you snore...  best have an agreement on who sleeps where.  There are tales of sleepless nights...  yet if one of you has permission to sleep in a quiet room to be rejoined, refreshed, in the morning...  it can be worked out.  
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I feel for your concerns and given your concerns an overnight may not be for you. Perhaps multiple two hour dates would be better for you. While as described that sometimes the play can go quite a while into the night, I would say that most overnight dates include sleep and on some ladies sites they even say the minimum number of sleep hours they want. So your better off as seeing it as a two or four hour evening date followed by a morning date in which she sleeps there for convenience. No extended date is non stop sex. I have had a 6 to 8 hour all day date and that included breakfast and lunch time in one case. As for your safety concern, overnights should be done with someone you have known for a while and feel a level of comfort and safety with. As has been said you will be spending a bunch of non sex time and it should be with someone you enjoy just being with or make smaller dates. I have had a morning date with a lady went away for a couple of hours and came back for an afternoon date.

Posted By: oldguy666
I travel overseas quite a bit and have seen my share of escorts in my hotel room for an hour or two.  I'm curious about overnights, however.  Not the cost, but the experience.  

(1) Do you "play" all night, or is sleep also a part of the experience?  If the latter, then I'm not sure I'm that interested in paying big $$ to have a girl sleep (literally) beside me.  I'll just stay with the two-hour outcalls.

(2) I'm worried about theft in an all-nighter, esp. if I fall asleep.  What's to prevent me from waking up with the girl and half my stuff gone.  (Yes, I know about in-room safes; I use them.  But, I can't fit everything valuable into them.)

(3) I've always used a fake name with my dates.  For an overnight, would I have to use my real name?  Do they check through the front desk?  If so, again, I'll stick with the two-hour sessions.

Thanks for your help.  Hope to hear from some more experienced at this.

og

And before anything else I want to also say that there is NOTHING wrong with that. We all like different things, and that variety is a GOOD thing. :)

While some ladies will happily forego sleep, most will want several hours of uninterrupted sleep. Personally, no one wants to be around me when I am sleep deprived. ;) Regardless, this should be discussed ahead of time to avoid misunderstandings. Similarly, you'll also want to discuss meals (dinner, breakfast, both?), and any other non-private activities you'll want to do or not do. You can leave room for flexibility, certainly, but those are the three big things that definitely need to be known by both of you prior to meeting.

As you said, there are room safes or a safe at the front desk if you're really concerned about theft. But if you're going to be spending an extended period of time with someone, that level of worry is going to put a huge damper on your mood. I think an overnight or other extended date should be only with someone with whom you have at least a moderate level of trust and compatibility. If you haven't established that comfort level, you're probably not going to have a very good time anyway.

I'd caution against using a fake name for any date if she's specifically asked for your real name. If the lady finds out you've lied about who you are, you risk being blacklisted under both your real and fake name and all the other info you've given. The risk vs. reward is yours to evaluate on that, but I know I personally do not take at all kindly to being lied to. I screen with real world info for my safety, and if I feel you've compromised that, I get all kinds of cranky! If she doesn't ask for your real name, of course, then feel free to give any pseudonym you please. Everyone screens differently, and not everyone cares who you actually are as long as you have a history of behaving well.

And lastly, how comfortable are you with giving her a deposit ahead of time? These are very common with longer dates to help discourage either of you from cancelling last minute. You'll both have cleared your schedules for an entire evening and morning, and to have that time essentially wasted is not a good situation for either of you! Not everyone asks for one, but many do, so also be sure that's clarified (as well as any issues of refunds should either of you cancel) well before scheduling.


.........my situation is such that I could never do an overnight here in the U.S.  I have a SO, and so my venture into the hobby--only in the last 4-5 weeks--has been with 60- or 90-minute sessions locally.  I can see how the experiences get better with time, i.e., with second dates with a good provider, and dates beyond that.  I just had my second date with one last week, and the experience was 100% better than the first time--less nervousness, better communication and trust on both sides.  So, yes, I understand the point that most of you have made about trusting someone for an overnight date.  If I DID do an overnight locally, I would trust this lady explicitly.

But, my question was more oriented to overseas travel.  I travel 3-4 times a year to Europe or Asia, and have several days where I'd have opportunity to do overnights.  So far, I've just done massages--after 18-24 hours of travel, these are just what the doctor ordered!  Sometimes they're in-room massages, and sometimes AMP's.  In both scenarios, they've usually developed into HE's, at the very least, and FS on occasion.

So, I have a trip upcoming to Beijing, with several days free, and have been wondering about using an escort service there for an all-nighter.  From the tenor of your comments, sounds like I'd be better to simply go with a two-hour date in the evening, and then try another two-hour the next day, if I really want that.  I'm not terribly interested in dinner, long walks in the Forbidden City, etc., with a pretty young thing whom I'll probably never see again.

Any thoughts on this?

Thanks.

og

Going overseas I would say your right on with multiple dates since you will be with strangers or if you really want a marathon try an all day  rather then overnight. I did several all day sessions before my first overnight. your still going to pay her for eating time etc. but at least your awake. If you can arrange with someone who will start early, I have started with her arriving early and a quick session, then off to breakfast while I recovered. Then time for the main long session and a little snuggle time before off to lunch. Again this gave me recovery time before the afternoon session. As everyone said overnights are for someone you have established a connection and trust with.

Posted By: oldguy666

.........my situation is such that I could never do an overnight here in the U.S.  I have a SO, and so my venture into the hobby--only in the last 4-5 weeks--has been with 60- or 90-minute sessions locally.  I can see how the experiences get better with time, i.e., with second dates with a good provider, and dates beyond that.  I just had my second date with one last week, and the experience was 100% better than the first time--less nervousness, better communication and trust on both sides.  So, yes, I understand the point that most of you have made about trusting someone for an overnight date.  If I DID do an overnight locally, I would trust this lady explicitly.

But, my question was more oriented to overseas travel.  I travel 3-4 times a year to Europe or Asia, and have several days where I'd have opportunity to do overnights.  So far, I've just done massages--after 18-24 hours of travel, these are just what the doctor ordered!  Sometimes they're in-room massages, and sometimes AMP's.  In both scenarios, they've usually developed into HE's, at the very least, and FS on occasion.

So, I have a trip upcoming to Beijing, with several days free, and have been wondering about using an escort service there for an all-nighter.  From the tenor of your comments, sounds like I'd be better to simply go with a two-hour date in the evening, and then try another two-hour the next day, if I really want that.  I'm not terribly interested in dinner, long walks in the Forbidden City, etc., with a pretty young thing whom I'll probably never see again.

Any thoughts on this?

Thanks.

og

ConkneeLeengus1080 reads

Most ladies, in the US or elsewhere need beauty sleep.  We are not built to endure 12 hours of "play."
Have some respect, my friend.  Viagra is not our friend.  Plus,
After that much "play," it wouldn't be fun anymore.  The girl would be too tired.  
Good luck! Be safe!

I do over-nights with my ATF when we travel together. Trust isn't an issue for me and it shouldn't be if you stick with well-reviewed providers.

As far as the logistics, yes, there is going to be sleeping involved. If you want to screw all night you are, as you suggested, better off with a series of extended appointments.  Most girls who do overnights will expect a meal, maybe two, some quite time, an agreed to amount of sexual activity and yes, some sleep.

I would never do an over night date with a woman that I wasn't already a regular and had some things in common with.  Doing an over night with a total stranger is, to me at least, a bad idea and, quite possibly, a waste of money.

GoodAlias666 reads

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