Wondering how to inquire on the boards about a specific provider, respectfully and appropriately.

Found her on web on Eros, she’s on Preferred 411, has no personal website, was with an agency that seems to have closed—the reviews/profiles of its escorts are “no longer available.”

I can‘t find anything but minimal info about her—her self comments only, no reviews, nothing from another person. I’m interested but she’s not in my locale, and I don’t want to engage in a real waste of time from a thousand miles away. It seems odd to request info from others about a person who might be part of the reading audience, but even more so after having contacted that provider directly. I want to get some more info before contacting her directly (which I have an email for).

How to inquire of TER members via Boards about providers in such ways?

You can't be faulted for wanting more info on her.

Best thing to do is ask about her on her local board, and hopefully readers there will have seen her or know where to find more info.

Also, if your area has a local escort review board (not TER - a separate website - some cities have specific ones), that'd be a good place to ask.

It's pretty straightforward to ask "Has anyone seen this girl or know more about her?" and then provide as much info as you have.  It's pretty standard fare actually and not something that anyone should find offensive.

The standard format when posting on a regional is subject line "411 on Sally?" (or whatever her name)

However, I can't believe how often the post doesn't include a link to the Eros, CV, or other ad.  Provide as much info as possible, and you may be pleasantly surprised.

Also, don't post under an alias.  I've rec'd PM in response to 411 inquiries.

Good Luck!

The right way:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=126605&boardID=2&page=1


The wrong way:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=126597&boardID=2&page=1

-- Modified on 10/19/2008 6:58:37 AM

There is really wrong.