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RocketMan36 75 Reviews 837 reads
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Last time I figured things over 25 percent of my planned appointments never happened....

Mostly the lady had issues that could not be overcome, but in on instance my kid was sick and I couldn't make it....

Another lesson I learned early on is to have a Plan B....

RocketMan

guapo66454043 reads

Almost got to my first meeting but got shot down. Called/emailed 4 providers. Only one well reviewed lady called me back immediately.Voice like an angel and sweet as can be. I fell in love. I asked for appt 3days in advance. Said no need not busy in afternoons. Just call me 1 hour before. Appt day I called as instructed no reply after 2 hours so I called again. Called me back almost seemed like another person.Says. Who are you I speak to many people etc. Then she says ___  ___ half hour. Thats all I heard. I politely said come again I didn"t hear you. No response. Repeated myself. She hung up. Mind you I was calling from my cars bluetooth system. I wont use the system when calling from my car again.  Had afternoon off so I played 18 holes of golf instead. Anything else I did or said wrong???

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renaissanceman701489 reads

Well, my first observation is that only one lady out of four "called me back immediately". Providers have lives too. They aren't all glued to their cellphones or computers. Perhaps a little bit more planning would give them a more reasonable timeframe in which to get back to you. Especially as a newbie, give lots of leeway and be as helpful as you possibly can, because the lady that sees you for the first time is going out on a limb.

Next comment is to read the full reviews of ladies you are considering. Read what other guys have said about the lady's communication. If there is a pattern of weirdness, it will probably be evident. Do your homework and find somoene who is reliable and businesslike. Even in this arena, common courtesy still applies.

Sounds like you learned about the bluetooth. My disposable phone isn't the greatest, but I do try to be extra clear and communicate without any ambiguity.

You learned a few things without being out any money or getting into trouble. Call it a minor success, polish up your plan and try again. Good luck!

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mrfisher5432 reads

But seriously, communication with a cell phone is a bit of a gamble under the best of circumstances; toss in Bluetooth and being in the car and frustrations can mount.

The gal might have been having a bad day and gals often get spooked when something odd happens especially with someone they haven't met before.

Next time do you communications without the handsfree and hope that the call connection is a lot better.

I hope you have better luck next time.

By the way, what did you score?

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guapo66452086 reads

Thanks for the replies gents.Ren70 when I wrote immediately it was to mean timely on her part and completely absent on the others part. One ad on Eros sends you to a wrong number. I actually had been planning for a week.

Is it possible she said "I can be ready in 30 mins" and my response should have been I will await your call? Wow I cant believe my Bluetooth spoiled the day!!

Mr Fisher I shot a 95.

Thanks again guys.

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rentagirl1468 reads

You are getting closer to the hole guapo, before you know it you will putt out and put the pin in the hole, and you will be ready to tee up again and again.

Now is the time to press on, don't be discouraged about hitting into one hazard, just keep on trying.

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RocketMan36838 reads

Last time I figured things over 25 percent of my planned appointments never happened....

Mostly the lady had issues that could not be overcome, but in on instance my kid was sick and I couldn't make it....

Another lesson I learned early on is to have a Plan B....

RocketMan

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Zangari1263 reads

Guapo:  sorry this happened and  I commend you for your business-like attempt to make an appt a few days in advance. In dealing with this provider, the first alarm bell went off when she said, "no need to make an appt, just call an hour before". That almost never works, unless you & the provider have an existing relationship and are familiar with each other's schedule.   I'm glad you didn't let it ruin your day, you shot a round of golf instead--another sign of maturity.  

Despite what this provider told you, I'd refrain from calling providers--email & text messaging is less intrusive and more precise.   And you should join a screening service.   I use P411 & most of the P411 providers are professional and will have no problem in making an appt 3 days in advance.  I'm sure the other screening services work just as well.  Take care.  --z

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CindyGold936 reads

In response to Zangari's comment-

Some women say "no need to make an appt, just call an hour before" (or something simmilar) to newbie clients that sound like they are just calling for info and are not serious about actually going through with a session.  That way, if the girl *IS* free at that particular time, she can further screen the guy and agree to see him, *IF* he actually follows through with wanting a session... It is VERY common for inexperienced clients to scedule for a certain time 2 or 3 days in the future and then cancel at the last minute OR no call no show...

If you rushed around to get ready and/or declined a session with an established client because you were honoring the already sceduled appointment, THIS is particulaily vexing!


In response to guapo6645's comment-

"Then she says ___  ___ half hour."

Forget golf balls... You're a *GOOF ball*..!!!  She undoubtably said, "PLEASE CALL ME BACK IN A half hour."  Oy vey!!  Did you call her back? Probably not.  So there you have it!  She hung up because there was a crappy signal and she had already asked you to call her back... MEN, I tell you...

As far as the whole "Appt day I called as instructed no reply after 2 hours so I called again. Called me back almost seemed like another person.Says. Who are you I speak to many people etc...."

Escorts have lives like anyone else... dentists appointments, dinner with family and friends, hikes in the woods with their dogs etc... Hell, she may very well have been entertaining other gentlemen!  (I know, the horror.. the horror! ;) )  I think a lot of guys have NO idea how many phone call inquiries some girls get in an average day!  I have talked to as many as 30 gentlemen occasionally... YET, men will *STILL* call up and say things like "Hi it's Mike, remember me?"  I will politely say, "Could you please be more specific Mike... When did we last speak and have we met in person??"  Only to have him say "Two weeks ago on a Friday evening I called requesting information."  Well DERRR... I have spoken to a kazillion people since then!  I have an AMAZING memory considering I only keep records for BLACKLISTED clients... but I also get calls from people I saw ONCE 3 YEARS AGO... who expect me to remember them by their first name alone!

My point is- when you guys call, kindly give more information about yourself than just your first name!  Say something like "Hi, my name is Guapo.  We spoke three days ago in the afternoon. I had wanted to scedule a session for today in advance, but you had mentioned that your scedule was pretty open most days... Would you still have time available this afternoon to meet up?  You might remember me because I commented that I was in a great mood because of Tiger Wood's phenominal comeback after his sports injury..."


Best of luck and godspeed sceduling something sucessfully!  ;)

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FlirtyChristine1365 reads

This is some really great advice.

If I had a dollar for every "inquiry" we get from a potential client we almost wouldn't need to be providers (ok, I exaggerate a little).

Further, we get a lot of no-call no shows and difficult guys who refuse to give us any info to verify them - and then want to talk about sex acts.

Since we are a couple, my hubby Alex handles these guys and he refuses to talk "acts" and insists that we will put on a voyeur show and take things from there.

Further while these paranoid guys can be a little frustrating, we offer a no-cost 30 minute social time where we meet in public, so we can get a better feel for the character.

Please call if you decide to change your mind. Some providers go through a rather extensive checklist to prepare for their dates that can take as much as 2 hours!!!

Lastly, we get very worked up and excited to meet a new client, so a no-call-no-show is almost heartbreakingly disappointing. (and if we knew how to blacklist such a gent - we would!)

So, just call to cancel as early as possible to save your provider the effort.

xxoo

Christine & Alex
Phun Phlirtatious Phantasy in Phoenix (for 3 or more)

psst: hey you.. yeah, you... you've read this far, now go check out our newest review and PM us to tell us what you thought (we love the feedback).

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hiddenhills1366 reads

Second, you are getting educated in the hobby, without spending money. Many newbies, spend money on dates, that turn out poorly. What's the old saying, "if at first you don't succeed, try, try again" Everyone, was a newbie once. Many of the previous posts had good advice. Good luck

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