Hi everyone,
I am new to this, and have no reviews. To be honest, I don't really want any detailed reviews. However, I think it would be helpful to have a review which indicates that I am discreet, charming, and that my photos are accurate. : )
If I ask a client to write a review about me (I'd have to ask, because I request no reviews) how juicy do the juicy details need to be? I don't feel comfortable with the more intimate details of my time spent with a gentleman being shared online - don't let the nude photos of me all over the internet fool you - I'm an intensely private person. ; )
Can you give some examples of things which could be considered juicy details, that aren't too scandalous?
Have you written a review with less racy details in the juicy details section? What type of details are good enough?
Could my client just write "Beatrice prefers that anything you write about her begin with "Dear Diary" and be hidden under your mattress." ? ; )
I hope this isn't a ridiculous question.
Thanks in advance,
Beatrice Weston
ps Please don't PM me here, if you want to get in touch my email is on my website. : )
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I suggest you read some of my recent reviews. I do not use explicitly graphic language in them, but the story gets told.
Swim
Hey Swim,
When I try to click on your reviews, it tells me this is only for paid members...
Who have you reviewed recently? (Or is this against the rules...?)
I have not written a review since last November, and now that I am a moderator, I cannot write reviews as long as I am a mod. My last review was of a local (Tampa, FL) girl named Talia Amour.
You should be able to read the general details, just not the juicy stuff, sorry.....But, anyway, the review does not have to contain extremely explicit language describing body parts and various acts that take place.
Swim
and if I were a postal inspector you'd be looking at 10-20 in Sing-Sing.
But to address the OP:
TER does want their readers to get a pretty good idea of specific items that you allow or don't allow. It is, after all, why so many pay up to read this site.
Some reviews to get by with hardly a mention of any specific activity, but I don't think that such reviews are doing anyone any good, IMHO.
I do understand that a provider might be very uncomfortable with having her most intimate moments revealed, but on the other hand, the truth will ultimately do you and others more good.
..Matter of fact, I was just pondering this dilemma. I'd like to help out some of the ladies I've seen that were good company with a positive review. 'Specially in this provider-thin region. Then again, I'm not sure that they want me blabbin every little thing we did in private on the 'net either. Which at first feels like real "bad form".
That said, I myself am currently trying to use the reviews to figure out if a particular gal is "compatible" with my personal tastes. Reviews would seem to have their usefulness in that respect. But who knows if what was done with one client transfers to another. Or if said actions are the limit with the next.!
And another angle is the blaring fact that the review looks a helluva lot like a written confession on a somewhat public site.
All these angles have me a little twisted so I'm just sittin on my hands right now after my first review till I can sort it out. It would be nice if a fella could write a review w/o the juicy details. And mebbe PM me for the rest.? I dunno. Just tryin to refrain from steppin on toes or burnin bridges.. d:^) Schneeks..
Many reviewers will leave certain things out of a review. For example, if a girl performed an act not on her menu, revealing it will compromise her, especially with former clients who will be pissed they were not offered the same thing. Or, if she gave you a lot of extra time OTC because you clicked. Discretion is important sometimes. But there is a clear line between leaving something out and not including enough for an honest review.
Posted By: inicky46
Many reviewers will leave certain things out of a review. For example, if a girl performed an act not on her menu, revealing it will compromise her, especially with former clients who will be pissed they were not offered the same thing. Or, if she gave you a lot of extra time OTC because you clicked. Discretion is important sometimes. But there is a clear line between leaving something out and not including enough for an honest review.
That's part of my meaning exactly.. Seems like an easy way to really step in it.. But then how do ya go about researchin' a gal if ya can't count on the info available.. Garbage in, garbage out. Sounds like it still comes back to having to dive in and find out cold. Oy vey.!! And they ask me why I drink.! But then again, the "sampling can prolly be mighty schweet.!! d:^) Schneeks..
They will tell you what level of detail is expected. Generally, without enough explicit description of sex acts, the people who approve reviews will reject it. Keep in mind that, because the numerical scores are so subjective, most people rely on the Juicy Details to gauge what a provider is like. Of course, there's no complete consistency and I've seen Juicy Details that were so short they were useless, so you can try.
PS: I love your phrase "not too scandalous." I thought we were talking about fucking for money here. Is that not a definition of "scandalous?" Just teasing, Bea, and good luck.
and they are very sexy for being so discrete. I would love to do something "scandalous" with you if you ever get to NY!
the activities that went on BCD. Many guys will simply use acronyms (BBBJ, CBJ, CG, RCG) to discuss the particular sex acts that purportedly occured during the meeting. While others will go off and create an entire "Lifetime" movie of the dramatics (complete with how many orgasms you had...and you should tell him that you had at least 3 to make him feel good about himself 
I am curious what you are looking for in the reviews for yourself? I can only guess that you want this info to be made public as a marketing tool for yourself. While it is typically NOT encouraged to tell or discuss with a gent what he should/should not write, I am well aware that this does occur. And the only times I will ask a gal if there are certain specifics that should remain quiet would be for activities which she clearly does NOT advertise.
How you would expect a gent to not be "graphic" would be a tad naieve on your part. This is P4P and guys who want to read a review are typically seeking to know what you are offering as a service, and if that is not discussed in some form in a review, then they are left to guess as to this activity being allowed (or an email discussing these services which many gals prefer NOT to do).
Posted By: ChgoCPA
I am curious what you are looking for in the reviews for yourself? I can only guess that you want this info to be made public as a marketing tool for yourself. While it is typically NOT encouraged to tell or discuss with a gent what he should/should not write, I am well aware that this does occur. And the only times I will ask a gal if there are certain specifics that should remain quiet would be for activities which she clearly does NOT advertise.
How you would expect a gent to not be "graphic" would be a tad naieve on your part. This is P4P and guys who want to read a review are typically seeking to know what you are offering as a service, and if that is not discussed in some form in a review, then they are left to guess as to this activity being allowed (or an email discussing these services which many gals prefer NOT to do).
I know it's P4P. We're going to be intimate. My restrictions are listed clearly on my website, and I encourage anyone seeking something specific to ask me via email prior to meeting me. : )
I am just looking for a confirmation that my photos are accurate, that I'm attractive, and that a great time was had by all! I was just wondering if this is possible since I'm unsure how explicit the juicy details have to be, since I cannot read them. : )
When I started doing this a few months ago, I was very anti review. But I enjoy reading this board, and realized that I don't even go to a restaurant without first reading a few reviews on it... ; )
I appreciate all the responses!
Posted By: Bea.Weston
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I am just looking for a confirmation that my photos are accurate, that I'm attractive, and that a great time was had by all! I was just wondering if this is possible since I'm unsure how explicit the juicy details have to be, since I cannot read them. : )
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With all due respect, Bea, a review as you describe above is NOT what this site is for. And quite frankly, if I read a review where the Juicy Details simply said "she's attractive, with accurate photos, and I had a great time," well, I'd be pissed. That's not why I pay my hard-earned money to be a VIP.
Hobbyists need a place where activities with a provider can be discussed, explicitly, without euphemisms like "she's a total GFE" or "everything is on the menu."
Many of us want to know the dirty details -- does she give an uncovered blowjob? Can you come in her mouth, or on her face? Will she let you fuck her ass?
Apologies if that offends; but if you don't want those sort of reviews (which is totally your call) then TER is probably not the site for you.
"The Juicy Details section should be used to describe the provider, the experience, and whether or not you enjoyed the session in graphic emotional and sexual terms. Don’t make this space a recap of the General section. Instead, go for a blow-by-blow tell-all of your session with the provider from your own unique point of view. Remember, your opinion matters! Both the General and Juicy details should be at least four lines long or (preferably) longer."
I guess I can just ask my client to mention in the juicy details section that I don't want explicit details on the internet... do you think that would help whoever is approving or rejecting it to approve it?
Thanks for the compliment re: my photos inicky46. ; ) It's unlikely I'll ever escort in NY - I like Canada where it's a utopia and this sort of thing isn't so illegal. : )
Thanks Schneeky... I think it would be great for women that prefer not to have reviews, to just have a confirmation that their photos are accurate and they are worth seeing!
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I find it hard to believe a review of you like the one you suggest would ever get approved. Sorry. It really is counter to what the purpose of the reviews is. Sorry you won't come to NY, but understand. Canada is a lovely place!
Everyone has a menu (civie or provider)... some providers go through the alphabet describing what is on the menu while others only say "GFE" or some such. How is a potential client to know what is on the table to get a good match? REVIEWS.
I maintain, the reviews should describe the positions utilized (from those on the menu). A gent should not disclose non-cataloged items... some ladies might allow Greek IF he's not too big, She's seen him before & she trusts him, etc but doesn't want Joe Big C*ck to expect it. I might go into more detail in the foreplay but don't go beyond positions in the action. Really, that's all the next client needs to know & by reading several reviews can have a good idea if his dreams Will be fulfilled or to look elsewhere.
The most important part of a review is the final line... will he see her again?
I think it is better stratagy for HER to NOT be explicit in her ads or web site. Let the reviewers speak for the action.
In many locations, one must prove an offer of sex for money to charge solicitation. In some jurisdictions the ad can be used to charge solicitation with no utterance from her, if she accepts money.
The juicy details, they HAVE to go into detail.. if they don't, their review will not get approved for not providing enough "juicy details".. I've had several guys who wrote reviews that were rejected because they didn't want to go into detail, just wrote something like, "I saw NN on xyz date, her pics were accurate, her services were everything promised & she's a great lady".. they will NOT approve something like that... and some guys don't feel comfortable writing down the dirty details of their encounter & won't write reviews at all...
I like your site. Well thought out. Questiones answered. Links to definitions a great idea. You're certainly attractive... stunning in fact... and I like your pictures, a good mix. Often one of my criticisms is pictures that do not show enough views (need not be explicit) to know what you look like... not the case here.
Since you are part time & have a day job.... a few discreet reviews would be nice but suggest you pick one site for them & block the others.
I've sometimes wished I could take on the challenge of seeing how much could be described (and approved) with creative suggestion and inference rather than explicit statements. I used to post reviews of strip clubs where this was necessary in order to avoid unwanted attention from either LE or club managers with provocative acronyms and Anglo-Saxon terms. They were fun to write, but I'm not inclined to put in the effort here on TER unless a provider were to request it. So far, anytime I ask, the responses have been either 'no reviews, please' or 'graphic is fine, baby'.
