Where I'm from, escorting is regulated but it's pretty rare that a girl will do bbbj or cim/facial. In the rare case they do offer it, it's always an extra.

Now since girls here don't want to discuss 'specifics', I guess I'm left with 2 options:

- Ask when I'm there in person? is that ok?

- Obviously if previous reviews all mention it then it's safe to assume it's ok.

 
How common it is here? is it expected?

...time-consuming part of preparation is hair and make-up.  Showering between appointments is relatively easy but if you COF, that makes it much more difficult to get ready for the next guy.

Ask in person, but not before activities are commenced; she could think you're LE.

When it comes to reviews, YMMV so don't assume anything.

There is no "to be expected".  

The sooner you noobs accept this, the sooner you will start to have a good time

The BEST way you can prepare yourself for a date and maximize the chances to get what you want is to search for women who offer those acts that you want, choose those with the most reviews, read them carefully, PM a few of her recent reviewers, and make your choices based on the data you collect.

Once you walk in her door, all bets are off. She is going to make decisions on what she will do for you and what she won't based on a lot of things - including those reviews you read and her general history - but probably equal emphasis will be on your looks, your breath and body odor, and your attitude.

To answer your specific questions, when dealing with a reputable escort, never discuss specific acts until you are in the room, the money is put away, and you are starting to get into it. THEN you can ask anything you want, in fact most girls would prefer that you let them know exactly what you want so they are not just dancing in the dark. As for CIM/COF, some girls love it, some tolerate it, some will never allow it. Impossible to say if it is "common", it varies too much.

 
 

In the "heat of the moment" you could hit us in the eye or the hair...not a good idea.. specially if we are between appointments or going somewhere after.  I would say don't assume anything, it is really a circumstantial service rather than a norm.. It is safer to do CIM..at least that is what I like

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I love performing it, and I'd say about half the gals I've seen not only allow it, but like it too.

Really? You really think they like it? I have a hard time believing anything but an incredibly small amount of women actually like that. More like, there are tons of women around who will do anything to please a man or feel like their super hot for a second and have low self esteem. I'm sorry, but the whole COF thing is so only because of porn and I can't help but see it as quite degrading for a woman whether in civie life or not. Money can make people do a lot of things, but I don't think those chicks in porn like most of what they do, they like money and or are sadly too insecure to stand up for themselves when people tell them it's normal and all chicks do it. How would you feel if someone thought it was normal for possibly numerous men to blow it on your face all day and think you liked it? hell no, men wouldn't do half the shit they think women should be okay with.

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