she can give you a whitelist referral.  After you have had a date with her, you can ask her if she will give you a WL referral.  She will probably expect you to give her a nice review in return.

Swim

Could any Providers tell me what it takes for them to add a guy to the white list, I understand this is a terrific gift you could give a client!

...if I am left with a pleasant experience. I will definitely whitelist you baby.

Two providers whitelisted me without my asking.  They must have liked the review.  I did ask them to "OK" me on P411 and DateCheck, but not for a whitelist.  I'm not convinced whitelisting adds that much of a benefit.