you can edit the orginal post and type in subject" self delete" usually that takes care of all my f-ups

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It is just on the wrong board.....not a big deal...don't stress over it.

Once you get your third review you need to start asking to be allowed on the "provider only" board.

The appointment scenario you are describing, is just a case of nerves. It sounds as if he was a little nervous as well. We have all been there done that. I still get really nervous seeing a new client....regardless of how many reviews he has or how many whitelists he is on.

I would never advise mentioning a clients name, or any of their personal business on any board, which you did not do.

You are new.  I've read your posts with interest...  you are learning & gaining experience.  This is all good.  You are providing a service, granted...  but you also get (in fact must) set standards for your clients.  It starts with what services you will & will NOT provide.  The conditions (clean sheets)...  the last FBSM I got, the lady was stripping the sheets while I was dressing.  If a client has had 1 or more drinks, do you let him in?  Is it safe?  Is he high?  Most ladies insist NO DRUGS on their premises (which would make them a bigger target for LE).  How do you feel about guys who smoke cigs before an appointment?
I'd suggest you keep some breath mints, so you don't smell them as much (offer him one too).  Do you have an exhaust fan for ventilation (though that'll draw expensive heated air out of your location)?  
A Fav lady is a smoker... I am not... yet her location does not smell of smoke.  She must clean her mouth before.  If an extended meeting, she will ask if she can smoke & she goes to the kitchenette with an outside fam & stays away from me.  
I have has appointments with smokers when I had to air out my coat & wash my clothing when I got home.  
I hope this helps.
skb