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I see anyone w/o reviews somewhere is if a trusted hobby recommends her, or a provider I know well does same.  Otherwise, no review, no visit.  It's always best to err on the side of caution.  After you have some experience, you might TOFTT, but it's still something I rarely do.  It just ain't worth it most of the time.

Swim

So no reviews, I guess that's where it ends for many punters.

But if you really wanted to see her and you feel the advert is genuine, what other checks or things would you do to try and ensure she's not LE?

I have one in mind, she's even done some porn and has a bit of a rep as a dancer etc. plenty of ads around but no reviews :(

I guess you could google search the pics and phone number.  

Posted By: jaydean
So no reviews, I guess that's where it ends for many punters.  
   
 But if you really wanted to see her and you feel the advert is genuine, what other checks or things would you do to try and ensure she's not LE?  
   
 I have one in mind, she's even done some porn and has a bit of a rep as a dancer etc. plenty of ads around but no reviews :(

I googled this one in question to death lol!

She's been advertising on BP quite a while. Also appeared in a porno and has youtube videos (seeking fame I think). She even has a twitter account

All pics and video are totally consistent so it checks out from that side of things

So.....

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=179016

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=232906

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=222113

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=178501

Just a few examples of what you get when you like the pictures and don't read the reviews.
Nothing wrong with TOFTT, I do it all the time, but don't hold your breath waitin for a magical
method for ensuring a great session with an unreviewed provider. If it existed, then why would
review sites need to exist?

My first experience with the hobby ended up being a $600 HJ. Didn't know about TER at the time. Should be happy I at least got off LOL.

No review, I won't book you, is my policy.

I know everyone starts somewhere, but I don't TOFTT after that.

Being that at least with them you will be in trouble but "safe" There has been situations where gentlemen get robbed, or even hurt.. A good idea as others have said is to ask your local board if others have seen her or ask her if maybe she has reviews on other boards (TER is not the only source for reviews FYI). Additionally, keep in mind that TOFTT (Taking one for the team) should only be reserved to more experienced individuals who can gauge the situation well and avoid it.  
I would say for now, stick to well reviewed providers who can guarantee a pleasant, safe and fun experience, no need to take unnecessary chances.

The notion of seeing an un-reviewed provider and simply willing to "take one for the team" (keep in mind that this is a  mythical team of hobbyists, who will not pay you back for getting ripped off and who are only relieved that your poor experience was not there's....sorry, I digress) is just not smart business. Any potential upside in finding a high quality lady is greatly outweighed by all the inherent downside (a horrible session, getting financially ripped off, physically harmed, an LE trap, etc.). I really can't ever justify or recommend taking this approach....whether this is your first session or 1000th.  

Experienced hobbyists will disagree with me, indicating that they can figure out the ads and know which un-reviewed providers are worth seeing. Their prob. right. But its their cash and their choice. In truth, I know I can't dissect the quality of the ads, so I don't even try.  

If a lady does not have several recent quality reviews from established hobbyists, with her own personal website (not just an Eros or Backpage or 411 Ad), I simply won't make an appointment. I may miss out on seeing some wonderful women in the short term, but my peace of mind far outweighs that potential session.  

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I see anyone w/o reviews somewhere is if a trusted hobby recommends her, or a provider I know well does same.  Otherwise, no review, no visit.  It's always best to err on the side of caution.  After you have some experience, you might TOFTT, but it's still something I rarely do.  It just ain't worth it most of the time.

Swim

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