Newbie - FAQ

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GermanT 2474 reads
posted
1 / 11

Usually when I see a provider my favorite positions are cowgirl and oral because I don't have to do much work. However, after getting those two positions halfway I feel bad for not satisfying the provider and I attempt to do missionary. Is it possible within the hour to only recieve cowgirl and oral from the provider if that is all you want?

MILF with Great Tits 3590 reads
posted
2 / 11

your not satisfying her-- it's the rather unreasonable desire to have her working that hard physically, for a long time non-stop.

CG is very tough on the thighs and glutes. Extended BJs take a toll on your tongue, jaw and neck.

We all do them because we like them and our clients like them-- but for an hour straight?

You sound like a nice guy, but you need to put yourself in her shoes and imagine being required to do the same. I think you'll get the point.

l-o-l 1332 reads
posted
3 / 11

You can have whatever you want but the willingness of a provider to provide only CG is probably going to be dependent upon her level of fitness.  CG, especially vigorous CG that involves multiple speeds, grinding, and positions (reverse etc) is physically demanding for long periods of time.

You shouldn't feel bad, but you should make sure that you find providers whose reviews indicate that they are all about getting down with the get down and working (reviews indicate that some providers are clearly into mutual play and some providers are into fulfilling the client's wishes, any means necessary.  Pick accordingly).

I~Spy 2443 reads
posted
4 / 11

but if in the end she doesn't like playin with you because you are a lot of work and really no fun for her, she may deem time with you as not worth it to her. So if you want to see her again you may want to rethink your session.
also she does not have to give you a reference either by the way. Thats a curtisy we extend to clients we like, or a curtist to other providers. A refs from someone who didn't like playin with you could very much say, yes I have met him but I won't again he's difficult and a lot of work. Thats not helpful at all.
I love CG but an hr of it...even for me that's a bit much. I am not giving anyone an hr long BJ, we all do this for our own reasons, for me its more than the money, I wanna have a good time too. I see sex as an interactive sport. Just layin there isn't being very active now is it.
Like anything I am sure you can find someone to fit your needs but shop carefully.

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1627 reads
posted
5 / 11

...that missionary is satisfying her?  Cowgirl and RCG happen to be favorite positions of a couple of ladies that I see and Dogie actually very popular as well.

If cowgirl and oral is all you want that's fine. Any good provider will do that for you. If you are really interested in what she likes the best thing to do is ask her...

shudaknownbetter 1135 reads
posted
6 / 11

As a younger man I was a selfish lover because I did not know any better.  While it s certainly possible to have a provider give you only oral & CG, my bet is that is far from satisfying her...  or any woman.  While missionary (particularily the CAT variation) might be satisfactory for some women, my own feeling is that intercourse alone is selfish.  I want to be the best lover I can be, no matter which partner I am with at any given time.
If you want to be a better lover, then I would suggest you read up on the various oral techniques for giving oral to a woman.  
If you want permission to continue being a selfish lover because you are paying, well permission granted.  
Good luck to you,
skb
(11 TER reviews)

hungry1951 29 Reviews 1135 reads
posted
7 / 11

You might consider saving the oral and CG for the finale. Try booking a slightly longer session, maybe 90 minutes. Spend the front half paying attention to what the lady likes, and don't be afraid to ask. A nice combination of tongue and fingers will usually do the trick. There are also plenty of "lazy" positions to experiment with that you may find will satisfy the lady as well as yourself.

willywonka4u 22 Reviews 1237 reads
posted
8 / 11

...Now I'm no 30 second and I pop kind of guy, I never was, but how in the blue hell can you as a guy go for an entire hour doing CG?

I have this issue where I can't pop unless my legs are straight. This means that normally I can't pop unless in CG.

But for an hour man? Explore things a little more! I think you'll find that there's a lot more things you like if you tried some more things.

stargirl3355 See my TER Reviews 871 reads
posted
9 / 11

I would think if you are paying then you tell the girl what you want! There are alot of guys who dont try and please the girl at all... its all about them... and that is just fine. You see us providers so YOU can have fun! for some guys pleasing us is the fun part... and of course for ALL hobbyist its fun for you to be pleased. But damn if what you want is oral n cowgirl for an hour... tell the girl n i bet she will do her best to do so! just like everyone else said that is alot of physical work for the girl. I could do cowgirl for an hour but oral... eek! Your mouth gets tired!

Carrie Hillcrest See my TER Reviews 912 reads
posted
10 / 11

Sweet baby Jesus. CG is very, uh, satisfying to me, but for an hour? As the Rolling Stones put it, if it's not happened after several minutes, I can't get no satisfaction that way. But I try, and I try, and I try... ah no no no. *bass line*

...Sorry, got lost in the rock there. Basically, yes, if you'd like these two options/positions and those alone, you'll probably be able to find a lady who's amenable. But NOT for the entire hour. Even for those of us who consider ourselves reasonably physically fit, repetitive motion like that is rough on the muscles.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 1349 reads
posted
11 / 11

see each other, I doubt very much if I would last very long with a BBBJ from you.  You are one very attractive woman.  

Just wish you would visit Florida sometime.  I would show you just how nicely a lady should be treated.

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